youngmack
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Any more thoughts?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Going after Oneitis girl?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Rise Above Hate
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I would try to focus on moving on if I were you.there are plenty of single women on this planet who would love to date a guy like you.youngmack said:Any thoughts on this? Any dudes have experience in doing this?
Its come to a point where nothing i do gets this girl off my mind.This girl is my ex...I'm 16 and shes 16.... Its been over a year now I've been improving myself and keeping my self busy. Working out,playing football, getting my grades up talking and messing with LOADS of girls and nothing seems to get her outta my mind. I've been doing no contact since and she texts me and initiates contact here and there,(We attend the same high school, so we see each other often.) But i don't initiate first whatsoever.
I'm afraid i'll never get over her, because i havent met a girl that has the qualities shes got and no girl makes me feel the same way she makes me feel.
Rise Above Hate
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Yes but always make an effort to talk to multiple womenyoungmack said:Any more thoughts?
youngmack
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Rise Above Hate said:Yes but always make an effort to talk to multiple women
Which i always do.. i have 4 girls right now who wants to date me, and talking to other girls.. Im fvckin two of them, so basically im spinning a decent amount of plates for a 16 year old..but yet i still think about me ex all day ! She literally has me cry myself to sleep some nights and she has me so depressed.
This is probably a lesson being taught to me but i just wish it could've been taught later on when i get older because right now i cant handle it.. im too emotionally weak (i think it has something to do with my horoscope sign "cancer" and cancers are known to be really really sensitive, and the fact that i was raised by a female).
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How do yall have so many selection of girls. At home I'll be lucky if I met 1 girl the whole 3 months.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
youngmack
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Ringleader41 said:How do yall have so many selection of girls. At home I'll be lucky if I met 1 girl the whole 3 months.
Im in highschool