youngmack
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Any more thoughts?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Going after Oneitis girl?
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- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Rise Above Hate
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I would try to focus on moving on if I were you.there are plenty of single women on this planet who would love to date a guy like you.youngmack said:Any thoughts on this? Any dudes have experience in doing this?
Its come to a point where nothing i do gets this girl off my mind.This girl is my ex...I'm 16 and shes 16.... Its been over a year now I've been improving myself and keeping my self busy. Working out,playing football, getting my grades up talking and messing with LOADS of girls and nothing seems to get her outta my mind. I've been doing no contact since and she texts me and initiates contact here and there,(We attend the same high school, so we see each other often.) But i don't initiate first whatsoever.
I'm afraid i'll never get over her, because i havent met a girl that has the qualities shes got and no girl makes me feel the same way she makes me feel.
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Yes but always make an effort to talk to multiple womenyoungmack said:Any more thoughts?
youngmack
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Rise Above Hate said:Yes but always make an effort to talk to multiple women
Which i always do.. i have 4 girls right now who wants to date me, and talking to other girls.. Im fvckin two of them, so basically im spinning a decent amount of plates for a 16 year old..but yet i still think about me ex all day ! She literally has me cry myself to sleep some nights and she has me so depressed.
This is probably a lesson being taught to me but i just wish it could've been taught later on when i get older because right now i cant handle it.. im too emotionally weak (i think it has something to do with my horoscope sign "cancer" and cancers are known to be really really sensitive, and the fact that i was raised by a female).
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How do yall have so many selection of girls. At home I'll be lucky if I met 1 girl the whole 3 months.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
youngmack
Master Don Juan
Ringleader41 said:How do yall have so many selection of girls. At home I'll be lucky if I met 1 girl the whole 3 months.
Im in highschool