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Going after one girl but another who wants you is stopping you, help.

HowardHughesDicaprio

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So I am in a situation right now where I am going after this one girl (girl 1) who is nice, sweet, and feminine. She is an italian girl with a pretty face and a nice body, since it's summer time her skin turns into this fantastic tan that is just lovey. Then there is this other girl (girl 2) who is a curvy blonde that is almost 6 ft tall with a tomboy like attitude to her, she does MMA (how I even know here in the first place) and she is into me because she has given all sorts of IOIs and even tried to kiss me on a few occasion, she is quite touchy with me too.

This past Saturday I was talking to girl 1 and we were having a nice time and then to my surprise girl 2 is in the exact same place. She disrupts the conversation and starts talking to me out of the blue, I play it nice and occasionally talk to her but keep my focus on girl 1. Girl 2 then starts talking to girl 1 in a condescending manner and starts an argument with her. When I tell girl 2 to stop she responds saying "thats not what you said when we were kissing". As I am arguing with girl 2, girl 1 walks away.

I start telling girl 2 I don't like in that way but she just responds by saying I am in denial and girl 1 is not the girl for me anyways.

And if it makes any difference in the situation, girl 2 can fight well. I have seen her spar with some of the guys at the gym and more than hold her own.

My question is how do I approach girl 1 now and avoid girl 2?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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