"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Going after one girl but another who wants you is stopping you, help.

HowardHughesDicaprio

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So I am in a situation right now where I am going after this one girl (girl 1) who is nice, sweet, and feminine. She is an italian girl with a pretty face and a nice body, since it's summer time her skin turns into this fantastic tan that is just lovey. Then there is this other girl (girl 2) who is a curvy blonde that is almost 6 ft tall with a tomboy like attitude to her, she does MMA (how I even know here in the first place) and she is into me because she has given all sorts of IOIs and even tried to kiss me on a few occasion, she is quite touchy with me too.

This past Saturday I was talking to girl 1 and we were having a nice time and then to my surprise girl 2 is in the exact same place. She disrupts the conversation and starts talking to me out of the blue, I play it nice and occasionally talk to her but keep my focus on girl 1. Girl 2 then starts talking to girl 1 in a condescending manner and starts an argument with her. When I tell girl 2 to stop she responds saying "thats not what you said when we were kissing". As I am arguing with girl 2, girl 1 walks away.

I start telling girl 2 I don't like in that way but she just responds by saying I am in denial and girl 1 is not the girl for me anyways.

And if it makes any difference in the situation, girl 2 can fight well. I have seen her spar with some of the guys at the gym and more than hold her own.

My question is how do I approach girl 1 now and avoid girl 2?
 

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