"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Going after one girl but another who wants you is stopping you, help.

H

HowardHughesDicaprio

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 14, 2014
Messages
203
Reaction score
8
So I am in a situation right now where I am going after this one girl (girl 1) who is nice, sweet, and feminine. She is an italian girl with a pretty face and a nice body, since it's summer time her skin turns into this fantastic tan that is just lovey. Then there is this other girl (girl 2) who is a curvy blonde that is almost 6 ft tall with a tomboy like attitude to her, she does MMA (how I even know here in the first place) and she is into me because she has given all sorts of IOIs and even tried to kiss me on a few occasion, she is quite touchy with me too.

This past Saturday I was talking to girl 1 and we were having a nice time and then to my surprise girl 2 is in the exact same place. She disrupts the conversation and starts talking to me out of the blue, I play it nice and occasionally talk to her but keep my focus on girl 1. Girl 2 then starts talking to girl 1 in a condescending manner and starts an argument with her. When I tell girl 2 to stop she responds saying "thats not what you said when we were kissing". As I am arguing with girl 2, girl 1 walks away.

I start telling girl 2 I don't like in that way but she just responds by saying I am in denial and girl 1 is not the girl for me anyways.

And if it makes any difference in the situation, girl 2 can fight well. I have seen her spar with some of the guys at the gym and more than hold her own.

My question is how do I approach girl 1 now and avoid girl 2?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top