"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Goin to the beach with 4 girls..but i have a GF

jadeona13

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I have a GF..we get into fights a lot. Recently she went to the beach and said she doesnt want me to come. My best friend was there and i found out she was checking out guys and even pointed some out. So that day i called up my friend (whos a girl) and said lets go to the beach. She said ok and invited three of her friends.

Now pretty soon im going to the beach with these 4 girls. My girlfriend will be at work. Im not going to do anything wrong (maybe check out the girl). But i feel guilty. Should i flake on these 4 girls? Or should i just go and enjoy myself, i know nothing will happen anyway..

by the way. i told her i was going with my guy friend and his dad..

Bad idea?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Go to the beach and have fun.
 
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