"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Goin to the beach with 4 girls..but i have a GF

jadeona13

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I have a GF..we get into fights a lot. Recently she went to the beach and said she doesnt want me to come. My best friend was there and i found out she was checking out guys and even pointed some out. So that day i called up my friend (whos a girl) and said lets go to the beach. She said ok and invited three of her friends.

Now pretty soon im going to the beach with these 4 girls. My girlfriend will be at work. Im not going to do anything wrong (maybe check out the girl). But i feel guilty. Should i flake on these 4 girls? Or should i just go and enjoy myself, i know nothing will happen anyway..

by the way. i told her i was going with my guy friend and his dad..

Bad idea?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Go to the beach and have fun.
 
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