LONE_WOLF420
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u think its a good thing to go by myself? i mean i go with a couple of my friends but i never done it alone and i gotta get some #'s too. who has went 2 a club by themselves?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
goin 2 a club alone...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
lonewolf
I say follow your namesake and just fing do it
I do it time and time and time again, my social proof has risen and theres no where new to go, so maybe I've done it to many times now.
If I had the chance in the big city though I'd do it everyday, even 24 hour clubs during my lunch breaks if possible.
Just go to the club, make some new friends, scout for prospects and start growling.
No sweat, I give
two thumbs to lone sharking
I say follow your namesake and just fing do it
I do it time and time and time again, my social proof has risen and theres no where new to go, so maybe I've done it to many times now.
If I had the chance in the big city though I'd do it everyday, even 24 hour clubs during my lunch breaks if possible.
Just go to the club, make some new friends, scout for prospects and start growling.
No sweat, I give
two thumbs to lone sharkingMightyMate
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Dont ****in go alone. That looks lame.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
i do it from time to time, nfn wrong with it. Just remember to keep your state feelin nice and talk to as many people as you can. If you dont then you will slowly crumble
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
You could look lame, but if you go in there and go into your first set, technically everyone doesn't know your alone, and work the whole room. So in end your never going to be alone and everyone thinks you know the other sets your talking too.