"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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goin 2 a club alone...

LONE_WOLF420

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u think its a good thing to go by myself? i mean i go with a couple of my friends but i never done it alone and i gotta get some #'s too. who has went 2 a club by themselves?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Boner da Stoner

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I say follow your namesake and just fing do it

I do it time and time and time again, my social proof has risen and theres no where new to go, so maybe I've done it to many times now.

If I had the chance in the big city though I'd do it everyday, even 24 hour clubs during my lunch breaks if possible.

Just go to the club, make some new friends, scout for prospects and start growling.

No sweat, I give:up: :up: two thumbs to lone sharking
 

Microphone Fiend

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i do it from time to time, nfn wrong with it. Just remember to keep your state feelin nice and talk to as many people as you can. If you dont then you will slowly crumble
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The first time bring your friends after try it alone. I went at the club yesterday and talk to some guys and made like 6 new friends...It is very easy.
 

Distant Light

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Originally posted by MightyMate
Dont ****in go alone. That looks lame.
You could look lame, but if you go in there and go into your first set, technically everyone doesn't know your alone, and work the whole room. So in end your never going to be alone and everyone thinks you know the other sets your talking too.
 
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