"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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goin 2 a club alone...

LONE_WOLF420

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u think its a good thing to go by myself? i mean i go with a couple of my friends but i never done it alone and i gotta get some #'s too. who has went 2 a club by themselves?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Boner da Stoner

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I say follow your namesake and just fing do it

I do it time and time and time again, my social proof has risen and theres no where new to go, so maybe I've done it to many times now.

If I had the chance in the big city though I'd do it everyday, even 24 hour clubs during my lunch breaks if possible.

Just go to the club, make some new friends, scout for prospects and start growling.

No sweat, I give:up: :up: two thumbs to lone sharking
 

Microphone Fiend

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i do it from time to time, nfn wrong with it. Just remember to keep your state feelin nice and talk to as many people as you can. If you dont then you will slowly crumble
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The first time bring your friends after try it alone. I went at the club yesterday and talk to some guys and made like 6 new friends...It is very easy.
 

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Originally posted by MightyMate
Dont ****in go alone. That looks lame.
You could look lame, but if you go in there and go into your first set, technically everyone doesn't know your alone, and work the whole room. So in end your never going to be alone and everyone thinks you know the other sets your talking too.
 
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