"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sup djs. Hows da ladies? Anyways, I have been talking to more girls than I normally do and making eye contact etc. I was jus wondering tho that when I talk to girls I rarely make them laugh. Truth is im prettty nervous when i talk to them. Also I feel kind of bad because some girls liek me already but I dont know what I should do? Keep talking to them? What should I do to keep them intrested and ****?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just Read all the tips and stuff on the Website. Oh and ask me later for tips on how to be funny. I am the class clown type guy and I have no trouble making girls laugh.
 

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To be honest with you I've never been a fan of learning loads of materials. I haven't read the bible either. The thing is you will not get over your shyness by reading more and more material the best way to get over it is by socialising loads and hanging out with the funny guys. The last day of school last year I was one of the guys who laughed at the funny guys and would make all the class laugh once or twice a day but when I went out over holidays and socialised alot I started to pick up a really good sence of humour. Its kind of difficult to explain what I mean but have you noticed how the natural DJs/alphas never run out of things to say because if you're calm you probably won't.
 

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There's a difference between entertaining and picking up women. If you want to entertain, become a comedian, not a womanizer.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Re: I haven't read the bible either.

Originally posted by Dukester
you dumb azz. read the bible, it helps

then again you are a young sh!t, so you dont know whats good or not good 4 u
Are you going on about me not knowing whats good for me based on my age? What I feel is good for me is not having to remember anything and still get a good success rate. I'm not really prepared to read loads of stuff at the moment when I'm still focusing on improving myself.
I understand however that the bible helps loads of people and it might help me in the long run but I'm happy where I am at the moment and I don't like being critisised on my choices because of my age. Dukester if you're going to tell people they've made the wrong choice please don't use their age as a reason.

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15 year olds can be intellegent:D . I hope you now understand why I choose not to read the bible as even though it would probably make me better I don't feel like reading it. If you have any reason proper reason why I should read the bible or why I have made the wrong desision then by all means say.
 

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This Times for real,

If you are going to be nervous and desperatly try to make them laugh then they probably will not laugh because you will not be projecting it in a funny way. About feeling bad because other girls already like you: are you prepared to go out with every girl who likes you? Why is it your duty, just because they like you, to make sure they don't see you DJing any other girls?
You should not be focusing on girls feelings/what they want its all about what you want and your feelings. You should stop focusing on the girls, if you do everything you can to make yourself happy then you will be interesting/funny/confident because thats what all the guys who really look after theirselves are. "How do I keep her interested?" is not the question you should be asking it's "Is she making me interested enough/Am I having enough fun" Putting her feelings/fun first is AFC and why AFCs don't get many girlfriends because they don't even think about how they are feeling.
 
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Interesting.....the n00bs are the ones telling the topic creator here to read the Bible. Seems like pent up anger for their failures as a Don Juanabee or anger because they had a question and some other n00b told them to read the Bible.
 

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Uhh...girls like me but i dont know what to do? Unless youre gay there no need for this question. Trying to brag a smidge possibly? If you dont know what you should do then you should be feathered and tared.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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