"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Damit I'M GREAT
i have no idea why i've been thinking so lowly of myself before.

I am very passionate about violin (and music) I've also played piano and trumpet.
I swim competitively, i've played basketball, football, badminton, soccer, and running before
I get good grades (3.92 GPA last semester)
I'm smart, and in very good shape.

I've just recently realized over these few days how much of a catch and how interesting i truly am.

Also, I used to think that looks were what kept me down, but i asked 4 girls to rate me brutally honestly on a forum, and i got 6.8, 7, 8, 8.

So I'm very diverse in my life, and I'm above average looking.
Time to Live my FVCKING Life.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Crazy Asian said:
Damit I'M GREAT
i have no idea why i've been thinking so lowly of myself before.

I am very passionate about violin (and music) I've also played piano and trumpet.
I swim competitively, i've played basketball, football, badminton, soccer, and running before
I get good grades (3.92 GPA last semester)
I'm smart, and in very good shape.

I've just recently realized over these few days how much of a catch and how interesting i truly am.

Also, I used to think that looks were what kept me down, but i asked 4 girls to rate me brutally honestly on a forum, and i got 6.8, 7, 8, 8.

So I'm very diverse in my life, and I'm above average looking.
Time to Live my FVCKING Life.
Plus you're really modest and humble.

Me, I'm going to love tomorrow.

I get better looking every day. Lol
 
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Crazy Asian said:
Damit I'M GREAT
i have no idea why i've been thinking so lowly of myself before.

I am very passionate about violin (and music) I've also played piano and trumpet.
I swim competitively, i've played basketball, football, badminton, soccer, and running before
I get good grades (3.92 GPA last semester)
I'm smart, and in very good shape.

I've just recently realized over these few days how much of a catch and how interesting i truly am.

Also, I used to think that looks were what kept me down, but i asked 4 girls to rate me brutally honestly on a forum, and i got 6.8, 7, 8, 8.

So I'm very diverse in my life, and I'm above average looking.
Time to Live my FVCKING Life.

Awesome point of view
 

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Ups and downs. teenage hormones.
 

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smooth guy said:
Ups and downs. teenage hormones.
haha yup, i guess

some days i feel like sh1t, some days i feel so pumped....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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join the club.

2 more years to go! :rockon:
 
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