"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Damit I'M GREAT
i have no idea why i've been thinking so lowly of myself before.

I am very passionate about violin (and music) I've also played piano and trumpet.
I swim competitively, i've played basketball, football, badminton, soccer, and running before
I get good grades (3.92 GPA last semester)
I'm smart, and in very good shape.

I've just recently realized over these few days how much of a catch and how interesting i truly am.

Also, I used to think that looks were what kept me down, but i asked 4 girls to rate me brutally honestly on a forum, and i got 6.8, 7, 8, 8.

So I'm very diverse in my life, and I'm above average looking.
Time to Live my FVCKING Life.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Crazy Asian said:
Damit I'M GREAT
i have no idea why i've been thinking so lowly of myself before.

I am very passionate about violin (and music) I've also played piano and trumpet.
I swim competitively, i've played basketball, football, badminton, soccer, and running before
I get good grades (3.92 GPA last semester)
I'm smart, and in very good shape.

I've just recently realized over these few days how much of a catch and how interesting i truly am.

Also, I used to think that looks were what kept me down, but i asked 4 girls to rate me brutally honestly on a forum, and i got 6.8, 7, 8, 8.

So I'm very diverse in my life, and I'm above average looking.
Time to Live my FVCKING Life.
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Plus you're really modest and humble.

Me, I'm going to love tomorrow.

I get better looking every day. Lol
 
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Crazy Asian said:
Damit I'M GREAT
i have no idea why i've been thinking so lowly of myself before.

I am very passionate about violin (and music) I've also played piano and trumpet.
I swim competitively, i've played basketball, football, badminton, soccer, and running before
I get good grades (3.92 GPA last semester)
I'm smart, and in very good shape.

I've just recently realized over these few days how much of a catch and how interesting i truly am.

Also, I used to think that looks were what kept me down, but i asked 4 girls to rate me brutally honestly on a forum, and i got 6.8, 7, 8, 8.

So I'm very diverse in my life, and I'm above average looking.
Time to Live my FVCKING Life.
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Awesome point of view
 
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Ups and downs. teenage hormones.
 
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smooth guy said:
Ups and downs. teenage hormones.
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haha yup, i guess

some days i feel like sh1t, some days i feel so pumped....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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join the club.

2 more years to go! :rockon:
 
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