"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Damit I'M GREAT
i have no idea why i've been thinking so lowly of myself before.

I am very passionate about violin (and music) I've also played piano and trumpet.
I swim competitively, i've played basketball, football, badminton, soccer, and running before
I get good grades (3.92 GPA last semester)
I'm smart, and in very good shape.

I've just recently realized over these few days how much of a catch and how interesting i truly am.

Also, I used to think that looks were what kept me down, but i asked 4 girls to rate me brutally honestly on a forum, and i got 6.8, 7, 8, 8.

So I'm very diverse in my life, and I'm above average looking.
Time to Live my FVCKING Life.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Crazy Asian said:
Damit I'M GREAT
i have no idea why i've been thinking so lowly of myself before.

I am very passionate about violin (and music) I've also played piano and trumpet.
I swim competitively, i've played basketball, football, badminton, soccer, and running before
I get good grades (3.92 GPA last semester)
I'm smart, and in very good shape.

I've just recently realized over these few days how much of a catch and how interesting i truly am.

Also, I used to think that looks were what kept me down, but i asked 4 girls to rate me brutally honestly on a forum, and i got 6.8, 7, 8, 8.

So I'm very diverse in my life, and I'm above average looking.
Time to Live my FVCKING Life.
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Plus you're really modest and humble.

Me, I'm going to love tomorrow.

I get better looking every day. Lol
 
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Crazy Asian said:
Damit I'M GREAT
i have no idea why i've been thinking so lowly of myself before.

I am very passionate about violin (and music) I've also played piano and trumpet.
I swim competitively, i've played basketball, football, badminton, soccer, and running before
I get good grades (3.92 GPA last semester)
I'm smart, and in very good shape.

I've just recently realized over these few days how much of a catch and how interesting i truly am.

Also, I used to think that looks were what kept me down, but i asked 4 girls to rate me brutally honestly on a forum, and i got 6.8, 7, 8, 8.

So I'm very diverse in my life, and I'm above average looking.
Time to Live my FVCKING Life.
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Awesome point of view
 
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Ups and downs. teenage hormones.
 
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smooth guy said:
Ups and downs. teenage hormones.
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haha yup, i guess

some days i feel like sh1t, some days i feel so pumped....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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join the club.

2 more years to go! :rockon:
 
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