"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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God women in general are real *****es sometimes!

ScrewIt

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Bought a sandwich in a store for 6.46$, gave her a 10 cause that's my smallest bill.
asked if i had ones on me, i said nope thats all i got. then she quickly got the change for me. her hand was holding the $3 and dropped it on the counter as i was about to reach over and get it.

"Oh im sorry"
me: thats ok

as i pocket my change... she says....."you didnt order the special did you?" and she sticks her hand in the bag and looks at the sandwich.
does it ****in matter!? the price is written on the bloody sandwich!! u already got my money!
damn ugly *****!

then i took my food and left. i really didnt understand what the **** was up with her as im a somewhat usual customer there about 1x a week. shouldve cursed out that *****!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJDamage

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Having a bad week?

Honestly it seems like maybe she was trying to save you some money or something, I guess she had a little relapse and forget to mention before you bought the sandwich.

If she was a hot chick you probably would have been ****y&funny with her and would have had more patience with her.
 

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Tell us how you REALLY feel...

hehehe

Seriously...she probably was having a bad day. When you work with the public like that you have to deal with a lot of arseholes. It's most likely that someone shortly before you gave her a really hard time and made her grumpy.

Don't take it personally...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ScrewIt

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that may be so, but it doesnt give you the right to take it out on someone else. it's called projection.

no one deserves to be disrespected like that, especially if they did nothing wrong.

she was pissed about something. ill just go to another cashier next time.
 

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Yeah. What a ****ing *****. :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
that may be so, but it doesnt give you the right to take it out on someone else. it's called projection.

no one deserves to be disrespected like that, especially if they did nothing wrong.

she was pissed about something. ill just go to another cashier next time.
Dude...how did she disrespect you? By not wanting to put the change right in your hand? Some people are weird about not wanting other people's germs and stuff...especially during flu season. Sure, it's not super polite to put the change on the counter, but it's not a crime against humanity, either.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sexy_Malibu

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Yeah dude and she APOLOGIZED. What a c*nt.
 

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Originally posted by Desdinova
Boycott sandwiches. They're evil.
yes they are indeed.

she was probably pissed. usually she doesnt do that **** to me.
behold the true power of george and his 1's!! ;)
 

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smh its a fukking sandwich get over it already!!

lucky she didnt spit on it son!:cool:
 
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