"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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splinterkb said:
Ok.. I don't know how to make this any clearer. Inner game is the most important part.. your "outer" game relies on it. Learning how to answer certain questions and subcommunication will only give off false confidence. If you have confidence, it will show on the outside, and women can see that. Confidence is the base for all this other bull****.. All those gimicks may help in very certain situations, but it will probably show that you're completely uncomfortable on the inside, which then it won't matter what you say or how you act.

Your outer game is based off your inner game. If you're confident and comfortable, you really won't need to try and look like you are. It will come naturally, which is what will be the most attractive to women. If you have your inner game down, the outer game will come with it.

Putting up a front and trying to fool the girl into thinking you're something that you're not isn't the way to go at all. What happens if you practice all those tricks... you're successful so far.. and then you get to the point with her where you quit learning all of that ****... what happens then? She will find out who you truly are, and probably be turned off by you acting so fake. If she sees you walkin around and acting like you're hot ****, and then you talk to her and she finds out that you're a complete dork... then you're f*cked.

All in all.. confidence is key. It affects what you say, what you're subcommunicating, how you walk, all of that. It shows that you're comfortable with who you are, and know what you want. It is the number 1 turn on for all women, and will never change. (Dressing good never hurts btw.. you got that part right)

How will your confidence be affected by 10000000 failures in a row?? Positively or negatively. <-- It will probably hurt your confidence.. whats your point?
I wasn't saying fake it til you make it and I wasn't downplaying the importance of confidence either. I was saying you DO need structure to get results and that comes from experience. You're saying that confidence supercedes everything. I'm saying it's a two way street. If you're confident but don't have social intelligence, you won't get results.

Interceptor's definition of street learning is my definition of outer game. also just realized enthusiast's definition of KNOWLEDGE is the same thing but it's not my fault the dude can't articulate
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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