"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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God, I'm retarded

Flabbergasped?

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So I was out on the town last night. Spent a while at one club, and this HB7 that I've only talked to appears out of nowhere. Anyway, I run my game, and after some time she's on me like white on rice. The club we're at starts dying down, so we leave. I call some mates and they say they're at one club, and she says she's going to another one. I'm like, "I've gotta meet my friends", and she's pretty much begging me to come with her, going as far as ditching her own friends for a while until they notice she's missing. I figure, "I'll go meet my mates, if the party's hot, I'll stay, if not, I'll meet her up there".

Long story short, the party isn't particularly hot. I leave and head to meet up with the chick where she is, and lo and behold, they make it members only (kinda a VIP thing), so no more non-members can get in. I go back to meet my friends, and although they're still inside, the bouncer says they're closing up and not letting anymore people in.

So, to summarize, I passed off an opportunity to score with a decent looking chick (and my gut told me she would have blown me right there if her friends weren't around) to meet my friends, for a reason I don't really understand, since they ditch me for chicks all the time. I'll probably see her again sometime, but she won't be as fired up as she was yesterday.

Just a rant, I guess.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Phyzzle

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Digits, man. Anything could happen later in the night. Cck-blocking friends or whatever.
 
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