"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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God.. Girls is really a mans kryptonite

NotaNewbie

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So a couple weeks ago i said to an old school mate (female) and i jokingly said to her, (her ex bestfriend) said you're a ***** (bad joke i guess) and she looks at me like :eek: so i say Nah I'm just joking. She then tells her boyfriend which is supposingly a gangbanger that i said that and made up some bullsht that i put my hands down her pants too and he comes up to me and basically says did i really do this but in a really ****y way so i say no. So then he says, say sorry to my girl or imma break your face so i said you know i didn't mean it was a joke and im sorry. Right now it feels like i lost my manhood. Dont reply telling me to fight back or w.e because im not a fighter nor could i really fight could any of you guys tell me what you woulda done?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jakes21

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Gheez, i would just stay away from such a sitsuation...move on,dont talk to that girl anymore...avoid her
 

j0n024

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I agree, I would have told the guy that he had a lying b1tch as a girlfriend cause I would NEVER wanna touch that and if he did swing and you do go to court ....who do you think the judge will favor more a kid or some "Gangbanger?" Plus you can press charges already since it was verbal assault.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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