Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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God.. Girls is really a mans kryptonite

NotaNewbie

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So a couple weeks ago i said to an old school mate (female) and i jokingly said to her, (her ex bestfriend) said you're a ***** (bad joke i guess) and she looks at me like :eek: so i say Nah I'm just joking. She then tells her boyfriend which is supposingly a gangbanger that i said that and made up some bullsht that i put my hands down her pants too and he comes up to me and basically says did i really do this but in a really ****y way so i say no. So then he says, say sorry to my girl or imma break your face so i said you know i didn't mean it was a joke and im sorry. Right now it feels like i lost my manhood. Dont reply telling me to fight back or w.e because im not a fighter nor could i really fight could any of you guys tell me what you woulda done?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jakes21

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Gheez, i would just stay away from such a sitsuation...move on,dont talk to that girl anymore...avoid her
 

j0n024

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I agree, I would have told the guy that he had a lying b1tch as a girlfriend cause I would NEVER wanna touch that and if he did swing and you do go to court ....who do you think the judge will favor more a kid or some "Gangbanger?" Plus you can press charges already since it was verbal assault.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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