"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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God Damn I just got ****ed over!HARD

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So last week my "GF" calls me up and says she has genital herpes......**** then i found out today the number she called me from is her ex boyfriends...****!! This **** sucks, i havent been tested yet but im pretty sure i have Herpes because we were gettin down like crazy for the past year
but she just had her first symptoms last week and ive never had any so im crossing my fingers......please, i need some words of wisdom,im only 19, this **** sucks!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Go get tested right away!! I hope you don't get it cause your b!tch cheated on you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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herpes chicks tend to be looser
 
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Listen, relax. While it is always better not to have genital herpes, genital herpes is more along the lines of a minor nuisance than the end of the world. Consider the following facts (which you can find for yourself):

- 90% of those infected are unaware they are infected, either because they are asymptomatic or their symptoms are so minor that they don't even notice.
- Unless you were in a high-risk group (pregnant women, elderly, or compromised immune system), it doesn't do your body any harm.
- For those who experience symptoms severe enough to be noticeable, the first outbreak is the worst but afterwards the outbreaks lessen and occur less frequently, to the point where the outbreaks eventually stop altogether (but don't confuse outbreaks with being contagious).
 
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Well good luck with that. At least if you do get it ... well it could be worse. Herpes would suck but it's not the worst thing to have I guess.
 
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Solomon said:
^^Get tested asap and always rock a rubber!!
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Condoms dont protect from herpes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SharinganUser said:
They don't protect the base of the penis and the balls, but they protect the shaft.

It's better than nothing.
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You still get infected.

Well, to the OP with herpes - your kid might have problems. I feel sorry for you.
 
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Some people are completely asymptomatic, most have very little in the way of symptoms. People with compromised immune systems have the most issues.
 
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My ex-wife has herpes and did for the seven years we were married. She never did give it to me. I have read that the transmission rate between married couples who abstain during outbreaks but still don't use condoms to be about 10% per year, so there is hope. Not having sex during an outbreak or just before one is the key.

Herpes tests are not very good. They can test your blood for the antibodies, but some people can have the antibodies, yet never get a sore and never give it to anybody else. All you can really do to know for sure is wait and see if you get a sore. It looks like a poison ivy bump and it hurts. Keep in mind, though, that it will not look nearly as bad as what you see in google image searches; those people in those pictures are usually immuno-compromised in some other way, like having AIDS or some other serious problem.

If you do get a sore, it's not the end of the world. Valtrex or Famvir as daily meds help a lot of people.

Also, do you think your ex could be lying? Ask her what the doctor told her and what meds she is on, and see what she says. Maybe she is just lying to break up with you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SharinganUser said:
They don't protect the base of the penis and the balls, but they protect the shaft.
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wait...you guys don't tuck your balls inside the condom? :confused:
 
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oh well......much worse **** could happen, my doctor said im asymptomatic and will probably never have an outbreak..But that ***** is having outbreaks looking like quarantine **** so at least i feel a bit of comfort
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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