"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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God Damn I just got ****ed over!HARD

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So last week my "GF" calls me up and says she has genital herpes......**** then i found out today the number she called me from is her ex boyfriends...****!! This **** sucks, i havent been tested yet but im pretty sure i have Herpes because we were gettin down like crazy for the past year
but she just had her first symptoms last week and ive never had any so im crossing my fingers......please, i need some words of wisdom,im only 19, this **** sucks!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Go get tested right away!! I hope you don't get it cause your b!tch cheated on you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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herpes chicks tend to be looser
 
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Listen, relax. While it is always better not to have genital herpes, genital herpes is more along the lines of a minor nuisance than the end of the world. Consider the following facts (which you can find for yourself):

- 90% of those infected are unaware they are infected, either because they are asymptomatic or their symptoms are so minor that they don't even notice.
- Unless you were in a high-risk group (pregnant women, elderly, or compromised immune system), it doesn't do your body any harm.
- For those who experience symptoms severe enough to be noticeable, the first outbreak is the worst but afterwards the outbreaks lessen and occur less frequently, to the point where the outbreaks eventually stop altogether (but don't confuse outbreaks with being contagious).
 
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Well good luck with that. At least if you do get it ... well it could be worse. Herpes would suck but it's not the worst thing to have I guess.
 
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Solomon said:
^^Get tested asap and always rock a rubber!!
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Condoms dont protect from herpes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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They don't protect the base of the penis and the balls, but they protect the shaft.

It's better than nothing.
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You still get infected.

Well, to the OP with herpes - your kid might have problems. I feel sorry for you.
 
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Some people are completely asymptomatic, most have very little in the way of symptoms. People with compromised immune systems have the most issues.
 
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My ex-wife has herpes and did for the seven years we were married. She never did give it to me. I have read that the transmission rate between married couples who abstain during outbreaks but still don't use condoms to be about 10% per year, so there is hope. Not having sex during an outbreak or just before one is the key.

Herpes tests are not very good. They can test your blood for the antibodies, but some people can have the antibodies, yet never get a sore and never give it to anybody else. All you can really do to know for sure is wait and see if you get a sore. It looks like a poison ivy bump and it hurts. Keep in mind, though, that it will not look nearly as bad as what you see in google image searches; those people in those pictures are usually immuno-compromised in some other way, like having AIDS or some other serious problem.

If you do get a sore, it's not the end of the world. Valtrex or Famvir as daily meds help a lot of people.

Also, do you think your ex could be lying? Ask her what the doctor told her and what meds she is on, and see what she says. Maybe she is just lying to break up with you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SharinganUser said:
They don't protect the base of the penis and the balls, but they protect the shaft.
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wait...you guys don't tuck your balls inside the condom? :confused:
 
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oh well......much worse **** could happen, my doctor said im asymptomatic and will probably never have an outbreak..But that ***** is having outbreaks looking like quarantine **** so at least i feel a bit of comfort
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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