"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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god dam!t

cablecow15

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ok every girl i start to like only likes me when im unavalible like the other day i was gonna hook up with a girl but i still had a gf so i couldent and told her that now that im single she dont like me and she even said it she s like "now that i know i can have u like i dont like u anymore i dont get it" this keeps on happining . what can i do to keep girls interested when im single or avalibe it seems like they onyl want ,me when they cant have me
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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That was a test that you promptly failed.

A C&F was in order.
 

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i dont know how to deal with this problem just keep dating diffrent girls and let her know i am dating them
 
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