"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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god dam!t

cablecow15

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ok every girl i start to like only likes me when im unavalible like the other day i was gonna hook up with a girl but i still had a gf so i couldent and told her that now that im single she dont like me and she even said it she s like "now that i know i can have u like i dont like u anymore i dont get it" this keeps on happining . what can i do to keep girls interested when im single or avalibe it seems like they onyl want ,me when they cant have me
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That was a test that you promptly failed.

A C&F was in order.
 

cablecow15

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i dont know how to deal with this problem just keep dating diffrent girls and let her know i am dating them
 
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