"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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god dam!t

cablecow15

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ok every girl i start to like only likes me when im unavalible like the other day i was gonna hook up with a girl but i still had a gf so i couldent and told her that now that im single she dont like me and she even said it she s like "now that i know i can have u like i dont like u anymore i dont get it" this keeps on happining . what can i do to keep girls interested when im single or avalibe it seems like they onyl want ,me when they cant have me
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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That was a test that you promptly failed.

A C&F was in order.
 

cablecow15

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i dont know how to deal with this problem just keep dating diffrent girls and let her know i am dating them
 
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