"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Go to ethnic communities during World Cup!!

bob2007

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Went downtown to little Portugal during their world cup win over England. You should see the dancing that sprung up when there was a band!

Kinda pathetic how I didn't pick up any chicks. Felt somewhat out of place, mainly cause I couldn't dance. But I shoulda used the opportunity to pick up. I even had my friend's camcorder coulda easily used it to break the ice.

I hope you guys don't miss out on the opportunity.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mahon83050

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bob2007 said:
Went downtown to little Portugal during their world cup win over England. You should see the dancing that sprung up when there was a band!

Kinda pathetic how I didn't pick up any chicks. Felt somewhat out of place, mainly cause I couldn't dance. But I shoulda used the opportunity to pick up. I even had my friend's camcorder coulda easily used it to break the ice.

I hope you guys don't miss out on the opportunity.
Yea, today I went to the Northend in Boston (Italian-American community) to watch Italy beat Germany. When the game was over, there was singing, dancing and fireworks in the streets...with Italian stuff all over. It was like you were in a different country.
 

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LIKE ENGLAND WE IN AUSTRALIA WERE DEVASTATED BY THE REFS TERRIBLE PENALTY THAT HAS SENT ITALY INTO THE FINAL AND US ON THE PLANE HOME, I DON'T THINK MANY AUSSIES WILL BE HAPPY IF ITALY WINS, WE WANT THEM TO LOSE AND FEEL THE WAY THAT WE DID WHEN WE WERE ROBBED OF OUR CHANCE TO CONTINUE ON. :mad: :box: :mad:
 

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You weren't robbed of **** you moron. Neill went to ground in the penalty box and whether you like it or not, he was obstructing Grosso from a clear goalscoring opportunity by having his body, prone, in the way.
Critics and people knowledgeable about football alike all agree that Italy and Australia were evenly matched, so you were hardly robbed.
Stick to the cricket, or whatever else you criminals do down there.
 

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This is awesome advice, guys. World Cup street parties are FANTASTIC! Watch out for tomorrow's France/Portugal party, and then the final party, which'll obviously be either Italy or France/Portugal.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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what i like about where i live (vancouver) is that the communities are so tolerant, you can wear a ukraine/german jersey into the italian cafe and people just smile, shake their heads at most.
 
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