"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Go for the kill or wait out ?

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Went on a school trip for a soccer game at another university and met this chick there. We partied together and a buddy of mine tried to hit on her but she was feeling me.
Anways , 3 years later I find her on Facebook and we started talking and catching up. ( like once every week or so )

Anyways I decided to ask her out and she seems willing ( which is good )
I asked her out about 3 weeks ago for a sushi date , which I later canceled due to work priorities. I gave her another message and she declined the Monday but made a counter for Friday. ( Another good sign)
Problem is , I was suppose to be off work but my foreman has an emergency so I have to fill in for him on Friday and most likely through the weekend if we are to meet the deadline.

Now my dilemma is , I finish work early on the Thursday & a local paint balling club also has a ladies night which women get in for free. Plus the sushi place is right round the corner .
I was about to message her and propose that we meet up on thursday night instead or else I have to bail on her for a other week.
Which I think she will start to think I'm playing around.
Or should I give her a call tomorrow instead ?
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Paintball is a great date. I would try the reschedule Thursday with that. Sushi is also a great date.
 
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Update

Me: Goodmorning S_____ , completely mixed up my schedule for the week. Got some work that needs to be completed on a deadline basis so I won't be able to make the Friday & i have a tight schedule for the rest of the weekend. However, if you are free we can go paintballing & grab some drinks afterwards.

Her : No worries lmaoo , I have a busy weekend as well. I have a day off on Thursday so we can do it. I'm so up for paintball !!!

Me: Sounds good , I will give you a call on thursday to arrange pick up time.

Her : Okay cool :))
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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