"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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go for it or not

jedimindtricks

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well i've known this girl since we were in 7th grade(we're in 10th now) and we started really talking in 8th grade and that's when we started to like each other. i never really did anything because she said she didn't want to ruin our friendship and now i regret it. well we stopped talking around the middle of 9th grade and we just started talking again. we flirt a lot and she sends a lot of mixed signals but i'm not sure if she still has feelings for me. she's told me before that she has wanted to kiss and before but i've never really tried to kiss her because it would be awkward since we're like good friends. so i was wondering if i should go for her and try to get into a relationship with her or just stay friends?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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kidkoala

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go for her. I mean u obviously feel conflicted which means it could go either way, so go for the relationship because u don;t want to regret this later, plus if u fail perhaps u can stay friends
 

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go for it! **** man by this chik telling u that she wanted to kiss u, dont u think thats a sign?!?!!! go for it dont be a AFC
 

jedimindtricks

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Originally posted by intha_burbz
go for it! **** man by this chik telling u that she wanted to kiss u, dont u think thats a sign?!?!!! go for it dont be a AFC
well that was last year, i'm not sure if she still has those feelings but i'm still going to go for it ;D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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