"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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go for it or not

jedimindtricks

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well i've known this girl since we were in 7th grade(we're in 10th now) and we started really talking in 8th grade and that's when we started to like each other. i never really did anything because she said she didn't want to ruin our friendship and now i regret it. well we stopped talking around the middle of 9th grade and we just started talking again. we flirt a lot and she sends a lot of mixed signals but i'm not sure if she still has feelings for me. she's told me before that she has wanted to kiss and before but i've never really tried to kiss her because it would be awkward since we're like good friends. so i was wondering if i should go for her and try to get into a relationship with her or just stay friends?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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kidkoala

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go for her. I mean u obviously feel conflicted which means it could go either way, so go for the relationship because u don;t want to regret this later, plus if u fail perhaps u can stay friends
 

intha_burbz

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go for it! **** man by this chik telling u that she wanted to kiss u, dont u think thats a sign?!?!!! go for it dont be a AFC
 

jedimindtricks

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Originally posted by intha_burbz
go for it! **** man by this chik telling u that she wanted to kiss u, dont u think thats a sign?!?!!! go for it dont be a AFC
well that was last year, i'm not sure if she still has those feelings but i'm still going to go for it ;D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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