"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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go for it or not

jedimindtricks

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well i've known this girl since we were in 7th grade(we're in 10th now) and we started really talking in 8th grade and that's when we started to like each other. i never really did anything because she said she didn't want to ruin our friendship and now i regret it. well we stopped talking around the middle of 9th grade and we just started talking again. we flirt a lot and she sends a lot of mixed signals but i'm not sure if she still has feelings for me. she's told me before that she has wanted to kiss and before but i've never really tried to kiss her because it would be awkward since we're like good friends. so i was wondering if i should go for her and try to get into a relationship with her or just stay friends?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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kidkoala

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go for her. I mean u obviously feel conflicted which means it could go either way, so go for the relationship because u don;t want to regret this later, plus if u fail perhaps u can stay friends
 

intha_burbz

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go for it! **** man by this chik telling u that she wanted to kiss u, dont u think thats a sign?!?!!! go for it dont be a AFC
 

jedimindtricks

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Originally posted by intha_burbz
go for it! **** man by this chik telling u that she wanted to kiss u, dont u think thats a sign?!?!!! go for it dont be a AFC
well that was last year, i'm not sure if she still has those feelings but i'm still going to go for it ;D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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