"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Go and ask her?

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Hi fellows,

Here's the day. There is a gorgeous who I'm looking for a few time. When she broke with her boyfriend, she didn't want to go for a relationship. She's so funny, gorgeous, a wonderful girl.

She sees me as a playboy. The boy who goes with any girl. Anyway, I don't care about it. Actually, she is always playing with me. She goes always like, ''why don't you want me?'' and etc. But it's normal in her behaviour, because she's like that with almost every boy. Well, on Friday, we were dancing and I asked her if what she said was true (wanting me). She answered ''find out''.

You know. With all this mistery, I'm getting crazy, I don't want to look like a ***** but..

Now she sent me a sms, asking me to ask her any question. What would you suggest? ''Why are so misterious with all guys'' - to make her see that i dont like it very much. Or a simple ''do you want to go to the cinema?''...that's kinda lame. I would prefer a ****y comedy answer to tease her..

Any suggestions...

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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First piece of advice, take her power away from her. She's got you jumping through hoops, trying to guess if she's interested and now she wants you to answer a question. She might be interested, but she is playing games.

You need to start playing back and take the driver's seat. Leave HER guessing about you now. She will start to get frustrated because she cannot control you, and she will have higher interest and respect for you. Basically you've got the right idea to tease her. Just look at the effect it's having on you and how crazy it's making you.

As for the question, I'd ask something totally unserious and unexpected such as a maths problem or ask her how many teeth she has etc.
 

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Friday, we were dancing and I asked her if what she said was true (wanting me).

Bad move, you put her in control of the situation. Don't ask questions, look for patterns/hints in her behavior, this will tell you more than she ever could.

You know. With all this mistery, I'm getting crazy,

And she knows it, that's the bad part. Girls are experts at playing this little game, you need to switch it around and make her crazy.

Now she sent me a sms, asking me to ask her any question. What would you suggest?

Keep the questions playful, because she's testing you to see what type of questions you ask. The type of questions you ask will tell her 'allot' about your interest level and confidence.

These are they types of questions I would ask...

1. What are you going to cook me for dinner when i come over?
2. Are you good at rubbing shoulders? Mine is killing me...
3. Do you hog the covers at night?
4. Do you wear Grannie panties or thongs? I don't like surprises...
 

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ask her how many teeth she has etc

Ha-ha, i like this one.
 

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@ biker and Jariel. Thanks.

Yeah. I have no problem answering it. Those were good examples, btw. I will use BUT i'm getting bored about these playful games. You know, I'm gonna to university, this is my last week in high school. I guess it's my last chance to force again something..

I don't wanna to play it hard, though. If I try something more personal, about relationship, I could use a ****y question and then something like..''you are a playgirl always teasing with boys...''. You know...something more personal, that would be OK?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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OK, thanks.

Now I asked her....what does she feel about me? She said that she only answers that if I answer it first.

Would you suggest something?

''I feel you are a lovely person, a great sense of humor but it misses something on you''

She probably would answer why? And I go, ''me''. No, that's too lame...any tips?
 
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