"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hi fellows,

Here's the day. There is a gorgeous who I'm looking for a few time. When she broke with her boyfriend, she didn't want to go for a relationship. She's so funny, gorgeous, a wonderful girl.

She sees me as a playboy. The boy who goes with any girl. Anyway, I don't care about it. Actually, she is always playing with me. She goes always like, ''why don't you want me?'' and etc. But it's normal in her behaviour, because she's like that with almost every boy. Well, on Friday, we were dancing and I asked her if what she said was true (wanting me). She answered ''find out''.

You know. With all this mistery, I'm getting crazy, I don't want to look like a ***** but..

Now she sent me a sms, asking me to ask her any question. What would you suggest? ''Why are so misterious with all guys'' - to make her see that i dont like it very much. Or a simple ''do you want to go to the cinema?''...that's kinda lame. I would prefer a ****y comedy answer to tease her..

Any suggestions...

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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First piece of advice, take her power away from her. She's got you jumping through hoops, trying to guess if she's interested and now she wants you to answer a question. She might be interested, but she is playing games.

You need to start playing back and take the driver's seat. Leave HER guessing about you now. She will start to get frustrated because she cannot control you, and she will have higher interest and respect for you. Basically you've got the right idea to tease her. Just look at the effect it's having on you and how crazy it's making you.

As for the question, I'd ask something totally unserious and unexpected such as a maths problem or ask her how many teeth she has etc.
 

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Friday, we were dancing and I asked her if what she said was true (wanting me).

Bad move, you put her in control of the situation. Don't ask questions, look for patterns/hints in her behavior, this will tell you more than she ever could.

You know. With all this mistery, I'm getting crazy,

And she knows it, that's the bad part. Girls are experts at playing this little game, you need to switch it around and make her crazy.

Now she sent me a sms, asking me to ask her any question. What would you suggest?

Keep the questions playful, because she's testing you to see what type of questions you ask. The type of questions you ask will tell her 'allot' about your interest level and confidence.

These are they types of questions I would ask...

1. What are you going to cook me for dinner when i come over?
2. Are you good at rubbing shoulders? Mine is killing me...
3. Do you hog the covers at night?
4. Do you wear Grannie panties or thongs? I don't like surprises...
 

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ask her how many teeth she has etc

Ha-ha, i like this one.
 

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@ biker and Jariel. Thanks.

Yeah. I have no problem answering it. Those were good examples, btw. I will use BUT i'm getting bored about these playful games. You know, I'm gonna to university, this is my last week in high school. I guess it's my last chance to force again something..

I don't wanna to play it hard, though. If I try something more personal, about relationship, I could use a ****y question and then something like..''you are a playgirl always teasing with boys...''. You know...something more personal, that would be OK?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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OK, thanks.

Now I asked her....what does she feel about me? She said that she only answers that if I answer it first.

Would you suggest something?

''I feel you are a lovely person, a great sense of humor but it misses something on you''

She probably would answer why? And I go, ''me''. No, that's too lame...any tips?
 
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