"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GLL: Swag Factor: The Missing Piece to Getting Top-Shelf *****

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Funny thing about watching the videos...Almost done with part three is I'm waiting for Floyd to post in this thread going BERSERK. lol.

The chicks GLL is talking about is common around here and my part time. Like I've said the more you hang around hot chicks the more you get to learn how most of them generally are. Though the superficial shizz gets boring with the quickness with me. I personally can't be bothered with the superficial nonsense. But I would recommend if you are looking to meet chicks and try to bang hot ones to definitely watch the three parts.
 
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Thanks for posting this NN- I really appreciate it.

Not everyone can stand to listen to me blabber for an hour so here is the written version-
http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2013/01/13/swag-factor-explained/

I don't say this much but- this is some of the best stuff I've ever contributed.

I try to simplify it but it took me a while to realize and even longer to put into words - that expands on what the mainstream (whatever that mean) gets correct but seemingly falls short on with the concept of "Social Skills." It's not air-tight but this "X-Factor" (Swag Factor = Social Status + Social Skills... aka HOW.COOL.YOU.ARE) is what separates the guys that get 'okay' girls and guys that get HOT girls

As a disclaimer- despite trying to be positive throughout, this discussion really hits some people hard and can be upsetting, I even upset some guys on my own site. Not in a "mad" way, but in a "okay, now im sad" way. But for the guys that have said and promised to themselves "I SWEAR TO GOD I WILL **** LOTS OF HOT GIRLS," this might be a turning pointing in how you see things.
 
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ScottMustaine said:
I hate that SWAG sh1t. I'm more anti mainstream guy, mostly because of my rebellious nature against mainstream and everything being ' same '.


Put on top of that heavy metal.

its not what you think I mean :)

its simply how legitimate cool a guy is, hot girls/normal people can tell from a mile away
 
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ScottMustaine said:
I guess dude. Don't think I'm against you or something. Good job for contributing and helping people out. At least you know what you're doing.

I'm just annoyed of bunch of idiots around me sh1tting they got ' swag ' , while yesterday they were all Justin Bieber clones.


Not to mention when they put random clothes and look like clowns , they call it swag.

Generally if you are not into ' mainstream' fashion as a teenager, you will have HARD time hanging around the group. Even though you are surrounded with bunch of insecure losers, they are still more 'swag' than you.

Idiot can spill the lame 'why did chicken cross the road' joke and everyone is 'crackin'. You come up with the original and you get like 1/4 of group laughing. Then when they notice they are in minority, they also go for radio silence.
yeah its not "pop swag" or loud necessarily,, although LA is large just that
there's all shapes and sizes though

just replace 'swag' with "Cool" ... like- LEGIT COOL, not "look at me" peacock cool

I just call it 'swag' because its a trendy word for cool that is consider "In"
in socially competitive cities- its all about looking like or being part of the "In Crowd" and not an outsider. Hot girls don't fck outsiders.

the coolest guys tend bang the hottest girls

if a guy can walk up to 90% of hot girls and they think "this guy is cooler than me, and I admit it," he'll get more ***** than he can handle.

now there's a subset of "loser dirtbags" that bang hot girls (arguably I am one somewhat), but these guys are "scumbag losers" (might not have a REAL job, take drugs during 9-5 hours, spits on ground.. that kind of stuff) and not "Dork losers" (warcraft)... big difference you know
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Above average penis size?! That's one thing I can't attain :(
 
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