"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GLL: Swag Factor: The Missing Piece to Getting Top-Shelf *****

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Funny thing about watching the videos...Almost done with part three is I'm waiting for Floyd to post in this thread going BERSERK. lol.

The chicks GLL is talking about is common around here and my part time. Like I've said the more you hang around hot chicks the more you get to learn how most of them generally are. Though the superficial shizz gets boring with the quickness with me. I personally can't be bothered with the superficial nonsense. But I would recommend if you are looking to meet chicks and try to bang hot ones to definitely watch the three parts.
 
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Thanks for posting this NN- I really appreciate it.

Not everyone can stand to listen to me blabber for an hour so here is the written version-
http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2013/01/13/swag-factor-explained/

I don't say this much but- this is some of the best stuff I've ever contributed.

I try to simplify it but it took me a while to realize and even longer to put into words - that expands on what the mainstream (whatever that mean) gets correct but seemingly falls short on with the concept of "Social Skills." It's not air-tight but this "X-Factor" (Swag Factor = Social Status + Social Skills... aka HOW.COOL.YOU.ARE) is what separates the guys that get 'okay' girls and guys that get HOT girls

As a disclaimer- despite trying to be positive throughout, this discussion really hits some people hard and can be upsetting, I even upset some guys on my own site. Not in a "mad" way, but in a "okay, now im sad" way. But for the guys that have said and promised to themselves "I SWEAR TO GOD I WILL **** LOTS OF HOT GIRLS," this might be a turning pointing in how you see things.
 
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ScottMustaine said:
I hate that SWAG sh1t. I'm more anti mainstream guy, mostly because of my rebellious nature against mainstream and everything being ' same '.


Put on top of that heavy metal.

its not what you think I mean :)

its simply how legitimate cool a guy is, hot girls/normal people can tell from a mile away
 
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ScottMustaine said:
I guess dude. Don't think I'm against you or something. Good job for contributing and helping people out. At least you know what you're doing.

I'm just annoyed of bunch of idiots around me sh1tting they got ' swag ' , while yesterday they were all Justin Bieber clones.


Not to mention when they put random clothes and look like clowns , they call it swag.

Generally if you are not into ' mainstream' fashion as a teenager, you will have HARD time hanging around the group. Even though you are surrounded with bunch of insecure losers, they are still more 'swag' than you.

Idiot can spill the lame 'why did chicken cross the road' joke and everyone is 'crackin'. You come up with the original and you get like 1/4 of group laughing. Then when they notice they are in minority, they also go for radio silence.
yeah its not "pop swag" or loud necessarily,, although LA is large just that
there's all shapes and sizes though

just replace 'swag' with "Cool" ... like- LEGIT COOL, not "look at me" peacock cool

I just call it 'swag' because its a trendy word for cool that is consider "In"
in socially competitive cities- its all about looking like or being part of the "In Crowd" and not an outsider. Hot girls don't fck outsiders.

the coolest guys tend bang the hottest girls

if a guy can walk up to 90% of hot girls and they think "this guy is cooler than me, and I admit it," he'll get more ***** than he can handle.

now there's a subset of "loser dirtbags" that bang hot girls (arguably I am one somewhat), but these guys are "scumbag losers" (might not have a REAL job, take drugs during 9-5 hours, spits on ground.. that kind of stuff) and not "Dork losers" (warcraft)... big difference you know
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Above average penis size?! That's one thing I can't attain :(
 
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