"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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.::glitch::.

Lordlaxative

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Guys help me out, I remember reading Mozart23's Tip "Get out of your box (and into hers)" a long time ago. And I really like the idea about God's computer glitch. Here is a link and the part about the glitch:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=19704&highlight=glitch

"Another great exercise is to pretend that somehow “God’s Computer” had a glitch of some kind, and everything about you was lost. So he (or she?) has asked you to fill out some form describing in detail who you are and he’ll get right on it and sorry for any inconvenience this may have caused. So now, with a blank sheet of paper in front of you, you can simply start filling in anything, you can simply fill in the person that you wanted to be but never really had the time to be yet. "

I have loved that I idea, but I have never really put it into practice. I am now deciding to take the initiative to do what it says. I am making my list, but I want to know what some essentials are for this "list." I already have:

confident
charming
****y & funny
dominant
well-dressed
attractive and interesting to all people
truly interested in knowing the people he comes in contact with
treats everyone with respect
if he is disrespected, he is not afraid to put them in their place
and let them know how he feels
He speaks his mind and is not afraid to disagree with others

Any more before I correct this "glitch" and begin to acquire the missing attributes of a true DJ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

DJBen

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No one can tell you what attribute you need to obtain. You have to find them for yourself.

It's a good starting list. Go with it and then find where you're weak, or what you need to improve.

You can achieve all of those by being motivated and having the balls to follow through with anything you put your mind to.
 

biker_gixxer

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Nice list bro.
 
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