"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Glimpse of former self.... (FR inside)

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In my late teens i was an animal when it came to hooking up and pulling hot azz but since then (im in my early to mid 20's now) I just cant find my groove anymore. maybe because im "growing up"? i dunno but anyway,.. About a week ago i felt good after heading home from the gym, i got home but decided to head back out to get some food and as im getting in my car, this HB 8 is walkin past my driveway and smiling at me, i say "Hi" with a smile and she responds with a small "hey" but keeps on walkin.... So i get in my car and back up, roll down my window.....

Me: "Hey Cutie"
Her: giggles "Hi"
Me: "Whats your name?"
Her: *Smile* "Rebecca"
Me: *Smile* "nice to meet you Rebecca, im in2thegame"
Me: *made a small joke*
Her: *giggles* "your so cute!"
Me: "Where you goin?"
Her: "To the train, goin Home"
Me: "Get in"
Her: *Hesitant*........... Ok.

To my suprise,... She got in.

Her: "how old are you?"
Me: "Im old enough lol" "Nah im 24"
Her: "ohhh, im older, Im 32"
Me: "32? you might be 32 but your body screams 18"
Her: *laughs*
Me: *little grin*
Her: "your crazy, i cant believe i got in here with you"
Me: *laughs*, "why? im not gonna try anything, lol"
Her: Uh huh .....

I drop her off the train... and we exchange numbers. She texts me that same night "Hey!" but i didnt respond, i just went to bed.

The past couple of days we small talked,.. and i get a text from her 2 days ago..

Her: "Hey, me and my girlfriend havin couple of drinks this weekend, wanna hang out?"

Geee,... what should i do guys? :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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nice FR.

Now, go and hang out with them, remember to win over her friend. Isolate her later, and do what you got to do.

I never go direct, but it seems like a lot more fun, I should try going direct like this..
 

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daygameguy said:
nice FR.

Now, go and hang out with them, remember to win over her friend. Isolate her later, and do what you got to do.

I never go direct, but it seems like a lot more fun, I should try going direct like this..
Thanks, Oh and By the way,...

How rude of me to leave out the best part,.. when she was getting out to catch the train, i leaned over and kissed her. she looked shocked but then smiled. as she walked off she kept looking back at me.
 

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In2theGame said:
Thanks, Oh and By the way,...

How rude of me to leave out the best part,.. when she was getting out to catch the train, i leaned over and kissed her. she looked shocked but then smiled. as she walked off she kept looking back at me.
I guess its completely ON atm. So just assume she is your gf, and enjoy her compliance to all your requests :)
 

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Nice example on how to do stuff! :) Thanks and good job!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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daygameguy said:
I guess its completely ON atm. So just assume she is your gf, and enjoy her compliance to all your requests :)
Thanks, I wouldnt of gone direct if she didnt smile with some EC first. If a chick gives of a smile and EC, i think most direct game can go far (aside from "hey suck my c*ck) but u get the idea lol
 

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she is an older woman which means she is direct with her intentions. she invited you to hang out with her and her friend, meaning she was attracted to you and would like to sleep with you.

set up a date and bone her, what more do you want, lol
 

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Older women know what they want. They're done with all the games. Oh, and they're good in bed.
 
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