"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Glimpse of former self.... (FR inside)

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In my late teens i was an animal when it came to hooking up and pulling hot azz but since then (im in my early to mid 20's now) I just cant find my groove anymore. maybe because im "growing up"? i dunno but anyway,.. About a week ago i felt good after heading home from the gym, i got home but decided to head back out to get some food and as im getting in my car, this HB 8 is walkin past my driveway and smiling at me, i say "Hi" with a smile and she responds with a small "hey" but keeps on walkin.... So i get in my car and back up, roll down my window.....

Me: "Hey Cutie"
Her: giggles "Hi"
Me: "Whats your name?"
Her: *Smile* "Rebecca"
Me: *Smile* "nice to meet you Rebecca, im in2thegame"
Me: *made a small joke*
Her: *giggles* "your so cute!"
Me: "Where you goin?"
Her: "To the train, goin Home"
Me: "Get in"
Her: *Hesitant*........... Ok.

To my suprise,... She got in.

Her: "how old are you?"
Me: "Im old enough lol" "Nah im 24"
Her: "ohhh, im older, Im 32"
Me: "32? you might be 32 but your body screams 18"
Her: *laughs*
Me: *little grin*
Her: "your crazy, i cant believe i got in here with you"
Me: *laughs*, "why? im not gonna try anything, lol"
Her: Uh huh .....

I drop her off the train... and we exchange numbers. She texts me that same night "Hey!" but i didnt respond, i just went to bed.

The past couple of days we small talked,.. and i get a text from her 2 days ago..

Her: "Hey, me and my girlfriend havin couple of drinks this weekend, wanna hang out?"

Geee,... what should i do guys? :up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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nice FR.

Now, go and hang out with them, remember to win over her friend. Isolate her later, and do what you got to do.

I never go direct, but it seems like a lot more fun, I should try going direct like this..
 

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daygameguy said:
nice FR.

Now, go and hang out with them, remember to win over her friend. Isolate her later, and do what you got to do.

I never go direct, but it seems like a lot more fun, I should try going direct like this..
Thanks, Oh and By the way,...

How rude of me to leave out the best part,.. when she was getting out to catch the train, i leaned over and kissed her. she looked shocked but then smiled. as she walked off she kept looking back at me.
 

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In2theGame said:
Thanks, Oh and By the way,...

How rude of me to leave out the best part,.. when she was getting out to catch the train, i leaned over and kissed her. she looked shocked but then smiled. as she walked off she kept looking back at me.
I guess its completely ON atm. So just assume she is your gf, and enjoy her compliance to all your requests :)
 

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Nice example on how to do stuff! :) Thanks and good job!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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daygameguy said:
I guess its completely ON atm. So just assume she is your gf, and enjoy her compliance to all your requests :)
Thanks, I wouldnt of gone direct if she didnt smile with some EC first. If a chick gives of a smile and EC, i think most direct game can go far (aside from "hey suck my c*ck) but u get the idea lol
 

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she is an older woman which means she is direct with her intentions. she invited you to hang out with her and her friend, meaning she was attracted to you and would like to sleep with you.

set up a date and bone her, what more do you want, lol
 

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Older women know what they want. They're done with all the games. Oh, and they're good in bed.
 
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