PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
This should be easy since all my approaches ****y.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Gladiators!::Approach Anxiety Competition!
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
It's The Elite 8. The Quarterfinals of the AA Competition. Good luck to all who remain.
LET'S GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :rockon:
This music is playin right now: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Et1sW7hwFQ
LET'S GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :rockon:
This music is playin right now: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Et1sW7hwFQ
Masculinity
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Maaan, I'll be one of the last ones standing!
In fact, I'm going to get the three number closes AND hug & kiss them goodbye when I'm done. That's right, these hoes better be ready!
Edit: I'm gonna get the hoes when I'm done with hw. I got a sh!tload of homework to do.
In fact, I'm going to get the three number closes AND hug & kiss them goodbye when I'm done. That's right, these hoes better be ready!
Edit: I'm gonna get the hoes when I'm done with hw. I got a sh!tload of homework to do.
Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
You made it to The Elite 8/Quarterfinals. So we'll see. I'm gonna be waiting for my opponent at the Championship.Robyn923b said:Maaan, I'll be one of the last ones standing!
In fact, I'm going to get the three number closes AND hug & kiss them goodbye when I'm done. That's right, these hoes better be ready!
Edit: I'm gonna get the hoes when I'm done with hw. I got a sh!tload of homework to do.
I got off to an early start like always. Though, my AA is a lot higher than usual because I know the circumstances(Remember to be ****y and funny and number close!). I approached a sorority girl in my class and told her "Hey, you're always wearing sorority stuff" and I told her that it seems like all she wears. She gave me this surprised WTF look as soon as I approached. I asked her what she did over Spring Break and she said she was preparing for her wedding. I told her good luck with that, approach over. That doesn't count.
Then, tonight I saw an HB 7 Black girl on her computer in the middle of the gameroom.
Me: Hey, How're you doing?
Her: Good
Me: You just had to use your computer in the gameroom of all places
Her: Haha yeah, I'm just waiting on my friend.
Me: Did you do anything interesting over Spring Break?
Her: I stayed here and worked at a restaraunt and did things with my suitemates.
Me: That doesn't sound too interesting but at least you had your suitemates to do things with.
Me: I see you're eating Chinese food, that's pretty good. But not as good as the local restaraunt. Have you been to X restaraunt before?
Her: Yes, it's good.
Me: Yes, it's better than what we have here.
Me: You look like you're working on some scientific stuff on your computer?
Her: Yes, it's Microbiology. It's complicated stuff.
Me: My sister is taking that class, she does nursing.
Her: Me too.
Me: Maybe you've seen her in class? She doesn't look like me so I don't know.
Her: haha, I don't know.
Me: I'm about to go to a Japanese travel study presentation.
Her: I know a little Japanese.
Me: Speak some for me.
Her: Ich-i
Me: Ichi "laughs at her*
Her: Na
Me:Ni San
Her: I'm trying to remember 4.
Me: Makes yo-yo motion with my hands.
Her:I don't know.
Me: yo
Her: Then she counts to 10 after that.
Me: Good job, and good job with the pronunciation.
Our approach was interrupted by a couple friends of her while I was talking and I was a little pissed off over it. One of the guys shook my hands, another 3-set of guys were talking to her, and I just ignored them.
Me: I'm seeing you again. Can I have your number?(Thanks for the closer!)
Her: Hahaha, I don't even know your name. I'll have to wait until I get to know you better.
Me:I'm not afraid of rejection. My name is D. Do you want to tell me yours?
Her: My name is X.
Me: Ok, Bye.
The dating culture here does not encourage getting numbers from girls on cold approaches. Most women get involved with men through social circles and looks. So, as much as I'd like to say I'm getting a number from a cold approach, I've experienced almost always a "No" or "I need to get to know you better". I need to do something to turn these good cold approaches into numbers. I got 2 more to do this week! It should be fun!
Then, tonight I saw an HB 7 Black girl on her computer in the middle of the gameroom.
Me: Hey, How're you doing?
Her: Good
Me: You just had to use your computer in the gameroom of all places
Her: Haha yeah, I'm just waiting on my friend.
Me: Did you do anything interesting over Spring Break?
Her: I stayed here and worked at a restaraunt and did things with my suitemates.
Me: That doesn't sound too interesting but at least you had your suitemates to do things with.
Me: I see you're eating Chinese food, that's pretty good. But not as good as the local restaraunt. Have you been to X restaraunt before?
Her: Yes, it's good.
Me: Yes, it's better than what we have here.
Me: You look like you're working on some scientific stuff on your computer?
Her: Yes, it's Microbiology. It's complicated stuff.
Me: My sister is taking that class, she does nursing.
Her: Me too.
Me: Maybe you've seen her in class? She doesn't look like me so I don't know.
Her: haha, I don't know.
Me: I'm about to go to a Japanese travel study presentation.
Her: I know a little Japanese.
Me: Speak some for me.
Her: Ich-i
Me: Ichi "laughs at her*
Her: Na
Me:Ni San
Her: I'm trying to remember 4.
Me: Makes yo-yo motion with my hands.
Her:I don't know.
Me: yo
Her: Then she counts to 10 after that.
Me: Good job, and good job with the pronunciation.
Our approach was interrupted by a couple friends of her while I was talking and I was a little pissed off over it. One of the guys shook my hands, another 3-set of guys were talking to her, and I just ignored them.
Me: I'm seeing you again. Can I have your number?(Thanks for the closer!)
Her: Hahaha, I don't even know your name. I'll have to wait until I get to know you better.
Me:I'm not afraid of rejection. My name is D. Do you want to tell me yours?
Her: My name is X.
Me: Ok, Bye.
The dating culture here does not encourage getting numbers from girls on cold approaches. Most women get involved with men through social circles and looks. So, as much as I'd like to say I'm getting a number from a cold approach, I've experienced almost always a "No" or "I need to get to know you better". I need to do something to turn these good cold approaches into numbers. I got 2 more to do this week! It should be fun!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
powpow
Senior Don Juan
Triple Agent youre the man. Seriously, I appreciate your effort in putting this game together for us. I am sure it is fun for you too, though. Good luck to my fellow gladiators. Because as we all know, the point of the arena is not only for fulfillment of bloodlust, it is also to put on a good show. Be awesome and put on a good show.
Actually, this week may be rather difficult for me because I am getting the hell out of Tokyo. These reactors just started spewing toxic **** all over the place, and I have a feeling one or both of these things are about to Chernobyl everything within about 100 miles.
I am going to see a girl that I met ONE TIME and live with her for a while until this stuff passes over. Is this a stupid idea? Yeah probably. Because I am pretty sure she is a complete sociopath. She lives in a small town about 600km southwest of here. But you guys better rest assured that I will run some mysterious, gentlemanly, thought provoking game.
When I first started college, I was having a conversation with one of my philosophy professors over some coffee in one of the lounges. He is a brilliant guy. We were discussing the nature of fate and destiny. He said, "Look, youth is the time for bold decisions and risktaking, and old age is the time for thought and consideration of all your actions."
That always stuck with me. Gentlemen, be bold. Go get what is yours.
Actually, this week may be rather difficult for me because I am getting the hell out of Tokyo. These reactors just started spewing toxic **** all over the place, and I have a feeling one or both of these things are about to Chernobyl everything within about 100 miles.
I am going to see a girl that I met ONE TIME and live with her for a while until this stuff passes over. Is this a stupid idea? Yeah probably. Because I am pretty sure she is a complete sociopath. She lives in a small town about 600km southwest of here. But you guys better rest assured that I will run some mysterious, gentlemanly, thought provoking game.
When I first started college, I was having a conversation with one of my philosophy professors over some coffee in one of the lounges. He is a brilliant guy. We were discussing the nature of fate and destiny. He said, "Look, youth is the time for bold decisions and risktaking, and old age is the time for thought and consideration of all your actions."
That always stuck with me. Gentlemen, be bold. Go get what is yours.
Masculinity
Master Don Juan
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+ 1 Rep.powpow said:
neghitzbrah
Don Juan
Brah, you became a DJ overnight or something. Rep. What the hell changed your mindset? It seems you have the perfect mindset now. Live life your way and don't give a fvck what anyone else thinks.powpow said:
I don't remember seeing your posts like this a month ago.
Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
neghitzbrah said:
This^
Thank you for putting this competition up AAA, you have brought out the Inner DJ in all of us.
Masculinity
Master Don Juan
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My very first cold approach!
I'm pretty good with night game and usually meet girls who are in my classes or around when I go out. Today, I broke out of this box and did my first cold approach. I saw an hb7 sitting down reading a math book at the cafeteria while I was having dinner. She had light skin, curly hair and nice eyebrows--just how I like them, except she was sitting so I couldn't see her booty. I was giving myself excuses for 5 minutes and then I grabbed my pair, stopped being a wuss and went over. Here's how it went down:
me: Hi! (pulling out chair to sit in front of her)
hb: Hey
me: Is that your real hair?
hb: yesss
me: it's incredible
hb: (smiles form side to side)
me: listen I need a female opinion on something
her: kk
me: My friend got married at Las Vegas with this chick he met three weeks ago. (story goes on) Do you think it'll last?
her: blah-blah-blah (seems excited as she talks & asks questions & answers with long sentences)
me: yeah..I don't believe in love at first sight. I believe in lust at first sight.
hb: yeah, sometimes I see a guy and think "wow he's hot" (smiles)
me: yada yada yada (continuing conversation) What's your name?
hb: Sabrina and you?
mr: I'm Robyn. Listen, I gotta get going, but you seem fun to talk to. (her phone was laying on the table and I grab it) Is this your phone?
hb: yeah
me: (took that yea like she said take my # and I called myself)
hb: woah...(smiling) I'm here helping you with your friend & you're giving me your number? waiit...you're calling yourself & getting MY number. (she actually let the call continue and didn't hang up).
me: haha...(smiling)
her: (smiling) wow, you are very forward
me: Nah, I'm not forward. You're just used too wussies. I gotta go though, catch up with you later!
her: ok =]
This is a huge thing for me. I'm 21 years old and I have never done a cold approach like this before so it may not be perfect. Let's hear what you guys gotta say!
I'm pretty good with night game and usually meet girls who are in my classes or around when I go out. Today, I broke out of this box and did my first cold approach. I saw an hb7 sitting down reading a math book at the cafeteria while I was having dinner. She had light skin, curly hair and nice eyebrows--just how I like them, except she was sitting so I couldn't see her booty. I was giving myself excuses for 5 minutes and then I grabbed my pair, stopped being a wuss and went over. Here's how it went down:
me: Hi! (pulling out chair to sit in front of her)
hb: Hey
me: Is that your real hair?
hb: yesss
me: it's incredible
hb: (smiles form side to side)
me: listen I need a female opinion on something
her: kk
me: My friend got married at Las Vegas with this chick he met three weeks ago. (story goes on) Do you think it'll last?
her: blah-blah-blah (seems excited as she talks & asks questions & answers with long sentences)
me: yeah..I don't believe in love at first sight. I believe in lust at first sight.
hb: yeah, sometimes I see a guy and think "wow he's hot" (smiles)
me: yada yada yada (continuing conversation) What's your name?
hb: Sabrina and you?
mr: I'm Robyn. Listen, I gotta get going, but you seem fun to talk to. (her phone was laying on the table and I grab it) Is this your phone?
hb: yeah
me: (took that yea like she said take my # and I called myself)
hb: woah...(smiling) I'm here helping you with your friend & you're giving me your number? waiit...you're calling yourself & getting MY number. (she actually let the call continue and didn't hang up).
me: haha...(smiling)
her: (smiling) wow, you are very forward
me: Nah, I'm not forward. You're just used too wussies. I gotta go though, catch up with you later!
her: ok =]
This is a huge thing for me. I'm 21 years old and I have never done a cold approach like this before so it may not be perfect. Let's hear what you guys gotta say!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Number Close Number One
Was on the bus coming home today, See a light skinned girl
Me: What kind of service do you have.
Her: AT&T
Me: How much you pay for it?
Her: 120$ a month usually, but my stepmom pays it
Her: So whats your major
Me: Accounting, what about you
Her: oooo, accounting... Thats nice. My major is Psychologally (sp?)
Me: That's wasup, so your good at analyzing people, where you headed to
Her: Back to my apt @ (her apt), what about you?
Me: (My apt name)
Her: O that's cool
Me: whats your name btw, I'm AJ
Her: My name is #LightSkinnedHB7#
Me: Well I gotta get goin, lemme get your number and we will catch up later
Her: Gives me digits...
Her: By PrettyBoyAJ
That's 1, 2 more to do. Will get these digits when I go to the gym tommorow.
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I'm starting to think too much about this. What I really wanted to do is just ask her for her number straight up... Like no rapport at all. Just go in. I'll try to do this tommmorow.
Was on the bus coming home today, See a light skinned girl
Me: What kind of service do you have.
Her: AT&T
Me: How much you pay for it?
Her: 120$ a month usually, but my stepmom pays it
Her: So whats your major
Me: Accounting, what about you
Her: oooo, accounting... Thats nice. My major is Psychologally (sp?)
Me: That's wasup, so your good at analyzing people, where you headed to
Her: Back to my apt @ (her apt), what about you?
Me: (My apt name)
Her: O that's cool
Me: whats your name btw, I'm AJ
Her: My name is #LightSkinnedHB7#
Me: Well I gotta get goin, lemme get your number and we will catch up later
Her: Gives me digits...
Her: By PrettyBoyAJ
That's 1, 2 more to do. Will get these digits when I go to the gym tommorow.
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I'm starting to think too much about this. What I really wanted to do is just ask her for her number straight up... Like no rapport at all. Just go in. I'll try to do this tommmorow.
Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
No number closes tonight...but right mindset has finally been achieved!!
I hit the club tonight, (the ****ty one across the street from campus.) And I got in for FREE!! (I had a good day today money-wise.)
Anyways, there weren't too many decent females tonight, there were a lot of Uggos and Whales. However, before going into the club, I gained the correct mindset.
"Who gives a fuck...just go have fun."
So, I shrugged and decided to spend the night practicing my mindset. I approached a set of about 5 girls SOLO. 1 whale 1 uggo 1 Hb6 1HB7 and 1HBShortgirl (HB7)
My Inner AFC was attempting to hold me back a little, but my inner DJ has become WAY stronger.
*Me keeping my task in mind*
(I step up to the girls and bust their balls on their dance moves. In order to make sure the mission didn't fail, I went for the whale first.)
GTP: I saw you lovely ladies on the other side and had to get over here and dance.
HBWhale: Ok!!!
(I grind and stuff with her until she's satisfied. As she turns to grab HBUggo, I use this as my opportunity to jump to the HB7 and HBShortgirl)
All I do is smirk and The HB7 (who is wearing really short shorts wit a nice ass) makes her hands touch the floor and I ride that ass like a cowboy.
Later on... I start to make a little more convo
With HB7
Me: ****ty song eh?
HB7: Yeahhh, they need to play something better.
Me: Haha, I know, then we can get out there cause I enjoyed those moves you got.
(I ask her about school and she tells me how she works at a Skate Shop and a bunch of other crap I wasn't paying attention too. I was going to escalate but I was losing interest and vice-versa)
HBShortgirl wasn't too interested in me,it may be because I didn't really spend any time with her, I don't really care to be honest.
I danced with HB6, but she was more interested in one of the other guys who happened to be around.
HBWhale and HBUggo stayed on my nuts for the whole night. I didn't even have to try. So I decided to practice a little bit of the forward stuff and I may have did an overkill. HB7 also rode my nuts a little longer as she started to regain interest in me, however I didn't want her number, because I can do better and because I don't really give a damn.
(All I did was flex and the rest was history.)
Next thing I know, they all show me their boobs right in the middle of the club. I grab tits and rub my **** on their asses and stuff. They enjoyed it and I just felt like doing it. So I did. I'm probably a legend to them now.
They wanted me to fuck them and wanted me to number close, but of course I sure as hell wasn't going to. I told them that I needed to get to sleep cause I had class in the morning. (Which is true, but also a good way to put them down gently.)
Oh and I approached a thin HBTattoos (Cute HB8) Which was going fine until her boyfriend who had as many tats as she did, pulled her away.
Even though there weren't really any attractive females tonight, I worked with what was available to me. Don't get me wrong, I have standards but a True DJ knows how to adapt to different scenarios and that's one thing i excelled in.
Oh and a description of how I look, About 6'3, I have a mohawk (see above post) and a lean build (I stay in the gym, for football and fitness reasons) and silver diamond studs in both ears.
I hit the club tonight, (the ****ty one across the street from campus.) And I got in for FREE!! (I had a good day today money-wise.)
Anyways, there weren't too many decent females tonight, there were a lot of Uggos and Whales. However, before going into the club, I gained the correct mindset.
"Who gives a fuck...just go have fun."
So, I shrugged and decided to spend the night practicing my mindset. I approached a set of about 5 girls SOLO. 1 whale 1 uggo 1 Hb6 1HB7 and 1HBShortgirl (HB7)
My Inner AFC was attempting to hold me back a little, but my inner DJ has become WAY stronger.
*Me keeping my task in mind*
(I step up to the girls and bust their balls on their dance moves. In order to make sure the mission didn't fail, I went for the whale first.)
GTP: I saw you lovely ladies on the other side and had to get over here and dance.
HBWhale: Ok!!!
(I grind and stuff with her until she's satisfied. As she turns to grab HBUggo, I use this as my opportunity to jump to the HB7 and HBShortgirl)
All I do is smirk and The HB7 (who is wearing really short shorts wit a nice ass) makes her hands touch the floor and I ride that ass like a cowboy.
Later on... I start to make a little more convo
With HB7
Me: ****ty song eh?
HB7: Yeahhh, they need to play something better.
Me: Haha, I know, then we can get out there cause I enjoyed those moves you got.
(I ask her about school and she tells me how she works at a Skate Shop and a bunch of other crap I wasn't paying attention too. I was going to escalate but I was losing interest and vice-versa)
HBShortgirl wasn't too interested in me,it may be because I didn't really spend any time with her, I don't really care to be honest.
I danced with HB6, but she was more interested in one of the other guys who happened to be around.
HBWhale and HBUggo stayed on my nuts for the whole night. I didn't even have to try. So I decided to practice a little bit of the forward stuff and I may have did an overkill. HB7 also rode my nuts a little longer as she started to regain interest in me, however I didn't want her number, because I can do better and because I don't really give a damn.
(All I did was flex and the rest was history.)
Next thing I know, they all show me their boobs right in the middle of the club. I grab tits and rub my **** on their asses and stuff. They enjoyed it and I just felt like doing it. So I did. I'm probably a legend to them now.
They wanted me to fuck them and wanted me to number close, but of course I sure as hell wasn't going to. I told them that I needed to get to sleep cause I had class in the morning. (Which is true, but also a good way to put them down gently.)
Oh and I approached a thin HBTattoos (Cute HB8) Which was going fine until her boyfriend who had as many tats as she did, pulled her away.
Even though there weren't really any attractive females tonight, I worked with what was available to me. Don't get me wrong, I have standards but a True DJ knows how to adapt to different scenarios and that's one thing i excelled in.
Oh and a description of how I look, About 6'3, I have a mohawk (see above post) and a lean build (I stay in the gym, for football and fitness reasons) and silver diamond studs in both ears.
Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
Oh and I'm black also. But Im sure you all knew that already.
Anyways, time for me the sack. I'll post some daytime approaches later on.
Anyways, time for me the sack. I'll post some daytime approaches later on.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
powpow
Senior Don Juan
I met a guy on the ferry on the way to see my friend here. I talked to him for about 6 hours about various stuff before I got his number. My approach anxiety is actually just as bad for men as it is for women.
And let me tell you guys a little something something. I am posting this from the bathroom of the girl I am staying with while Im taking a fat deuce. As a side note, taking a long deuce gets really awkward. Like I know she knows Im taking a dump.
Anyway, so I forgot to bring condoms. I got trashed. This girl admittedly has sex with lots of people. My drunken logic said to get her best friend involved. I thought to myself, well, if she has something, then she may not mind giving it to a random guy, BUT she will definitely not give it to her best friend. Right? Infallible drunken logic. So I got that threesome, but I am worried about man what if they both have it? Im a douchebag. I just wanted to let you people know.
Im gonna keep going, and see if I can just approach some people. Im not sure how long Im gonna be here... Still concerned about Chernobyl Round 2. Apparently all of Asia is taking earthquakes. Thailand, Taiwan, Japan... Its the muh****in apocalypse.
Peace out.
And let me tell you guys a little something something. I am posting this from the bathroom of the girl I am staying with while Im taking a fat deuce. As a side note, taking a long deuce gets really awkward. Like I know she knows Im taking a dump.
Anyway, so I forgot to bring condoms. I got trashed. This girl admittedly has sex with lots of people. My drunken logic said to get her best friend involved. I thought to myself, well, if she has something, then she may not mind giving it to a random guy, BUT she will definitely not give it to her best friend. Right? Infallible drunken logic. So I got that threesome, but I am worried about man what if they both have it? Im a douchebag. I just wanted to let you people know.
Im gonna keep going, and see if I can just approach some people. Im not sure how long Im gonna be here... Still concerned about Chernobyl Round 2. Apparently all of Asia is taking earthquakes. Thailand, Taiwan, Japan... Its the muh****in apocalypse.
Peace out.
neghitzbrah
Don Juan
There's this chick at work. I'll call her HB7fling. Took her out on 2 date a couple of months back and ONLY got a peck on the lips. Then my ex came back into my life and stopped talking to HB7fling.
Saw HB7fling this morning after about a month at work... she had quit soon after I last saw her. Now she works in a different position.
Negz: Oh look whose behind the desk now
HB7fling: Hey! Yeah I'm training now
Negz: (turns to the trainer and start talking to her while noticing HB7fling giving me looks)
I leave to talk to another girl at work. I can see jealousy all over her face when I pass by her. I come back and HB7fling is by herself at the desk. Then I walked up to her and look at what she's doin, shes filling out paperwork and some ****
Negz: What you got goin on here?
HB7fling: Just filling out tax forms, I have to photocopy this ID
Negz: Aight let's go copy it. Come with me
Kino on the way to the machine, laughing and I put my arm around her
Negz: So this is the code :: punches numbers:: you wanna know somethin else?
HB7fling: (Looks at me straight it eye and invades me personal space)
Negz: Come here
Made out with her for a few seconds
Negz: Follow me ::we go to a corner and make out for a few minutes::
HB7fling: We have a lot goin on here, maybe you should take me out for drinks and dinner
Negz: Haha you like spontaneity?
HB7fling: Yeah I like that
Negz: Then I'll let you know whats gonna happen
At this point we were interrupted and she had to get back to work.
This girl is a freak... but got further in 5 minutes than where i've been after 2 fvckin dates when I was AFC. And I paid for her drinks and dinner too. I'm no DJ right now, but definitely not as much as a pvssy.
Saw HB7fling this morning after about a month at work... she had quit soon after I last saw her. Now she works in a different position.
Negz: Oh look whose behind the desk now
HB7fling: Hey! Yeah I'm training now
Negz: (turns to the trainer and start talking to her while noticing HB7fling giving me looks)
I leave to talk to another girl at work. I can see jealousy all over her face when I pass by her. I come back and HB7fling is by herself at the desk. Then I walked up to her and look at what she's doin, shes filling out paperwork and some ****
Negz: What you got goin on here?
HB7fling: Just filling out tax forms, I have to photocopy this ID
Negz: Aight let's go copy it. Come with me
Kino on the way to the machine, laughing and I put my arm around her
Negz: So this is the code :: punches numbers:: you wanna know somethin else?
HB7fling: (Looks at me straight it eye and invades me personal space)
Negz: Come here
Made out with her for a few seconds
Negz: Follow me ::we go to a corner and make out for a few minutes::
HB7fling: We have a lot goin on here, maybe you should take me out for drinks and dinner
Negz: Haha you like spontaneity?
HB7fling: Yeah I like that
Negz: Then I'll let you know whats gonna happen
At this point we were interrupted and she had to get back to work.
This girl is a freak... but got further in 5 minutes than where i've been after 2 fvckin dates when I was AFC. And I paid for her drinks and dinner too. I'm no DJ right now, but definitely not as much as a pvssy.
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I was walking to the building to do a tutoring session for some students when I saw an Asian girl in my peripherals. I slowed down and the approach began.
Me:Hey, what languages do you speak?
HB Chinese 6: English and Chinese.
Me: Anything else, where are you from?
HB 6: China.
Me: Are you learning English here then?
Her: Yes.
Me: What level?
Her:What?
Me:Laughs at her. Level, Leeveeel, like level of class?
Her:Oh, 4. I want to do an undergraduate in Accounting.
Me: You said Accunting. haha
Her: Laughs
Me: My suitemates are learning English too. They're Saudi though, but they still have an accent like you.
Her: haha
Me: How long have you been here for?
Her: I want to be here 4-5 years(She misunderstood what I said haha)
Me:Haha, no, like how long have you been here?
Her: It's my 2nd day here, all I did yesterday was run all over the place. Today I'm relaxing and I got to sleep in.
Me: Yes, you're being lazy today.
Her: laughs I am a little.
Her: Are you American?
Me: Yes, can't you tell? I got blue eyes and I'm pretty white too.
Her: Laughs.
Me:I'm taking Japanese now but I've been wanting to learn Chinese.
Her: Oh! Ni Hao Mai is Hi.
Me:Ni Hao Mai.
Her: Good job!
Her: And XXX is I Love You.
Me: I just met you, I don't know why you're telling me that.
Her: She laughs and...
Me: I say I Love you in Chinese repeating her.
I'm doing kino more than ever at this point. I'm touching her arms and getting close in on her. She has stopped in her tracks just to talk to me on her 2nd day here!
Me: How about we exchange numbers and meet again some other time?
Her:What did you say?
Me: Laughs at her, I'll slow it down for you.
How about we exchange numbers and talk again some other time?
Her: She gets out her phone and I tells me she doesn't rememer her number.
Me: I tell her call my number then. And she does after I slowly tell it to her and tease her about her saying seks for six.
Me: I call her when she's right beside me so she gets my number and I tell her Hello in my phone and she thinks it's hilarious. Then I enter my name and number, and we exchange names.
I'm sure we would've talked longer but I had to go give my session that no one f*cking came to. lol So, I got her phone number through a cold approach.
Me:Hey, what languages do you speak?
HB Chinese 6: English and Chinese.
Me: Anything else, where are you from?
HB 6: China.
Me: Are you learning English here then?
Her: Yes.
Me: What level?
Her:What?
Me:Laughs at her. Level, Leeveeel, like level of class?
Her:Oh, 4. I want to do an undergraduate in Accounting.
Me: You said Accunting. haha
Her: Laughs
Me: My suitemates are learning English too. They're Saudi though, but they still have an accent like you.
Her: haha
Me: How long have you been here for?
Her: I want to be here 4-5 years(She misunderstood what I said haha)
Me:Haha, no, like how long have you been here?
Her: It's my 2nd day here, all I did yesterday was run all over the place. Today I'm relaxing and I got to sleep in.
Me: Yes, you're being lazy today.
Her: laughs I am a little.
Her: Are you American?
Me: Yes, can't you tell? I got blue eyes and I'm pretty white too.
Her: Laughs.
Me:I'm taking Japanese now but I've been wanting to learn Chinese.
Her: Oh! Ni Hao Mai is Hi.
Me:Ni Hao Mai.
Her: Good job!
Her: And XXX is I Love You.
Me: I just met you, I don't know why you're telling me that.
Her: She laughs and...
Me: I say I Love you in Chinese repeating her.
I'm doing kino more than ever at this point. I'm touching her arms and getting close in on her. She has stopped in her tracks just to talk to me on her 2nd day here!
Me: How about we exchange numbers and meet again some other time?
Her:What did you say?
Me: Laughs at her, I'll slow it down for you.
How about we exchange numbers and talk again some other time?
Her: She gets out her phone and I tells me she doesn't rememer her number.
Me: I tell her call my number then. And she does after I slowly tell it to her and tease her about her saying seks for six.
Me: I call her when she's right beside me so she gets my number and I tell her Hello in my phone and she thinks it's hilarious. Then I enter my name and number, and we exchange names.
I'm sure we would've talked longer but I had to go give my session that no one f*cking came to. lol So, I got her phone number through a cold approach.
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Woooosah Deicide! You gamed with style starting at the "Yes, can't you tell? on I got blue eyes and I'm pretty white too." You got one fresh off the bat! She'll probably be all over ya since she probably doesn't know many people. Well done! Work on your openers though...they aren't the strongest, but good job!Deicide said:
Maaan, I wish you fellow DJ's were local and we can just get chicks left and right.
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It's GOOD to be rejected like this, haha!
I called the girl from the cafeteria earlier tonight and she answered. She pretty much rejected me, but I got a lot of feedback from her. Here's the convo:
hb: hello?
me: Sabrina! do you know who this is?
hb: ohhh...my goh *giggling*
me: it's the cute guy from the cafeteria. What are you up to, kiddo?
hb: *still giggling* nothing just on the computer
me: doing whaaat on the computer?
hb: blah blah...umm, listen..umm how do I put this in a nice way. You aren't going to get anything out of me.
me: well, I guess if I were interested in you then that'd be a problem, but I'm not so just kick back and relax =]
hb: *silent in shock* It's nothing personal; I'm just loaded with homework and I also work and I don't have time to even be friends.
me: woah...are you always this negative? *playfully*
hb: yes...*laughs* I actually thought you were gay when you came over cause you commented on my hair and then you just BAM! tok my phone and got my number, I was like what the f**k? haha...
me: whaaat? haha, I'm the farthest thing from gay there is, fool..haha. Hmm..most gay guys are pretty good looking though, so I'm gonna take that as a compliment.
hb: Ahaha, take it any way you want... Sorry...but I'm sure you will find plenty of other girls out there (making it sound like I'm a player), especially the way you interact and if you talk to them like you did with me at the cafeteria *giggles*
me: blah..you nerdy women play hard to get too? booo....
hb: hahah, hey maybe I'll see you around and talk to you
me: hmm...we can be friends if you got some cute friends to hook me up with!
hb: haha, if they are in my classes, they are probably as busy as me.
me: no friends of your ooown!? That's scary *playfully* Well, kiddo I gotta go
hb: sorry, I'm just blah blah...
me: you really dont' have to explain yourself *playfully* it could have been lots of fun but you miss out!
hb: *laughing really excited at this point where I can almost tell she's regreting the stuff she's saying and just putting up a shield cause she's a med student and wants to get her stuff done* mmmkay... bye!
This is the best rejection I've ever gotten. I got hidden compliments and hints that I have my game together and that other women are likely to be attracted to me (from another hb herself!). I felt really confident after this conversation and happy I got rejected. Wooosah! :rockon:
I called the girl from the cafeteria earlier tonight and she answered. She pretty much rejected me, but I got a lot of feedback from her. Here's the convo:
hb: hello?
me: Sabrina! do you know who this is?
hb: ohhh...my goh *giggling*
me: it's the cute guy from the cafeteria. What are you up to, kiddo?
hb: *still giggling* nothing just on the computer
me: doing whaaat on the computer?
hb: blah blah...umm, listen..umm how do I put this in a nice way. You aren't going to get anything out of me.
me: well, I guess if I were interested in you then that'd be a problem, but I'm not so just kick back and relax =]
hb: *silent in shock* It's nothing personal; I'm just loaded with homework and I also work and I don't have time to even be friends.
me: woah...are you always this negative? *playfully*
hb: yes...*laughs* I actually thought you were gay when you came over cause you commented on my hair and then you just BAM! tok my phone and got my number, I was like what the f**k? haha...
me: whaaat? haha, I'm the farthest thing from gay there is, fool..haha. Hmm..most gay guys are pretty good looking though, so I'm gonna take that as a compliment.
hb: Ahaha, take it any way you want... Sorry...but I'm sure you will find plenty of other girls out there (making it sound like I'm a player), especially the way you interact and if you talk to them like you did with me at the cafeteria *giggles*
me: blah..you nerdy women play hard to get too? booo....
hb: hahah, hey maybe I'll see you around and talk to you
me: hmm...we can be friends if you got some cute friends to hook me up with!
hb: haha, if they are in my classes, they are probably as busy as me.
me: no friends of your ooown!? That's scary *playfully* Well, kiddo I gotta go
hb: sorry, I'm just blah blah...
me: you really dont' have to explain yourself *playfully* it could have been lots of fun but you miss out!
hb: *laughing really excited at this point where I can almost tell she's regreting the stuff she's saying and just putting up a shield cause she's a med student and wants to get her stuff done* mmmkay... bye!
This is the best rejection I've ever gotten. I got hidden compliments and hints that I have my game together and that other women are likely to be attracted to me (from another hb herself!). I felt really confident after this conversation and happy I got rejected. Wooosah! :rockon:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.