PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
This should be easy since all my approaches ****y.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You made it to The Elite 8/Quarterfinals. So we'll see. I'm gonna be waiting for my opponent at the Championship.Robyn923b said:Maaan, I'll be one of the last ones standing!
In fact, I'm going to get the three number closes AND hug & kiss them goodbye when I'm done. That's right, these hoes better be ready!
Edit: I'm gonna get the hoes when I'm done with hw. I got a sh!tload of homework to do.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
+ 1 Rep.powpow said:Gentlemen, be bold. Go get what is yours.
Brah, you became a DJ overnight or something. Rep. What the hell changed your mindset? It seems you have the perfect mindset now. Live life your way and don't give a fvck what anyone else thinks.powpow said:Gentlemen, be bold. Go get what is yours.
neghitzbrah said:Brah, you became a DJ overnight or something. Rep. What the hell changed your mindset? It seems you have the perfect mindset now. Live life your way and don't give a fvck what anyone else thinks.
I don't remember seeing your posts like this a month ago.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dude! That number close was sooooo SMOOTHH!! You're pumping me up!Robyn923b said:I'm pretty good with night game and usually meet girls who are in my classes or around when I go out. Today, I broke out of this box and did my first cold approach. I saw an hb7 sitting down reading a math book at the cafeteria while I was having dinner. She had light skin, curly hair and nice eyebrows--just how I like them, except she was sitting so I couldn't see her booty. I was giving myself excuses for 5 minutes and then I grabbed my pair, stopped being a wuss and went over. Here's how it went down:
me: Hi! (pulling out chair to sit in front of her)
hb: Hey
me: Is that your real hair?
hb: yesss
me: it's incredible
hb: (smiles form side to side)
me: listen I need a female opinion on something
her: kk
me: My friend got married at Las Vegas with this chick he met three weeks ago. (story goes on) Do you think it'll last?
her: blah-blah-blah (seems excited as she talks & asks questions & answers with long sentences)
me: yeah..I don't believe in love at first sight. I believe in lust at first sight.
hb: yeah, sometimes I see a guy and think "wow he's hot" (smiles)
me: yada yada yada (continuing conversation) What's your name?
hb: Sabrina and you?
mr: I'm Robyn. Listen, I gotta get going, but you seem fun to talk to. (her phone was laying on the table and I grab it) Is this your phone?
hb: yeah
me: (took that yea like she said take my # and I called myself)
hb: woah...(smiling) I'm here helping you with your friend & you're giving me your number? waiit...you're calling yourself & getting MY number. (she actually let the call continue and didn't hang up).
me: haha...(smiling)
her: (smiling) wow, you are very forward
me: Nah, I'm not forward. You're just used too wussies. I gotta go though, catch up with you later!
her: ok =]
This is a huge thing for me. I'm 21 years old and I have never done a cold approach like this before so it may not be perfect. Let's hear what you guys gotta say!
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Woooosah Deicide! You gamed with style starting at the "Yes, can't you tell? on I got blue eyes and I'm pretty white too." You got one fresh off the bat! She'll probably be all over ya since she probably doesn't know many people. Well done! Work on your openers though...they aren't the strongest, but good job!Deicide said:I was walking to the building to do a tutoring session for some students when I saw an Asian girl in my peripherals. I slowed down and the approach began.
Me:Hey, what languages do you speak?
HB Chinese 6: English and Chinese.
Me: Anything else, where are you from?
HB 6: China.
Me: Are you learning English here then?
Her: Yes.
Me: What level?
Her:What?
Me:Laughs at her. Level, Leeveeel, like level of class?
Her:Oh, 4. I want to do an undergraduate in Accounting.
Me: You said Accunting. haha
Her: Laughs
Me: My suitemates are learning English too. They're Saudi though, but they still have an accent like you.
Her: haha
Me: How long have you been here for?
Her: I want to be here 4-5 years(She misunderstood what I said haha)
Me:Haha, no, like how long have you been here?
Her: It's my 2nd day here, all I did yesterday was run all over the place. Today I'm relaxing and I got to sleep in.
Me: Yes, you're being lazy today.
Her: laughs I am a little.
Her: Are you American?
Me: Yes, can't you tell? I got blue eyes and I'm pretty white too.
Her: Laughs.
Me:I'm taking Japanese now but I've been wanting to learn Chinese.
Her: Oh! Ni Hao Mai is Hi.
Me:Ni Hao Mai.
Her: Good job!
Her: And XXX is I Love You.
Me: I just met you, I don't know why you're telling me that.
Her: She laughs and...
Me: I say I Love you in Chinese repeating her.
I'm doing kino more than ever at this point. I'm touching her arms and getting close in on her. She has stopped in her tracks just to talk to me on her 2nd day here!
Me: How about we exchange numbers and meet again some other time?
Her:What did you say?
Me: Laughs at her, I'll slow it down for you.
How about we exchange numbers and talk again some other time?
Her: She gets out her phone and I tells me she doesn't rememer her number.
Me: I tell her call my number then. And she does after I slowly tell it to her and tease her about her saying seks for six.
Me: I call her when she's right beside me so she gets my number and I tell her Hello in my phone and she thinks it's hilarious. Then I enter my name and number, and we exchange names.
I'm sure we would've talked longer but I had to go give my session that no one f*cking came to. lol So, I got her phone number through a cold approach.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.