---> To the Colosseum my brothers!
I was thinking for a while about how to conquer my AA. Since i am very competitive and also don't like to let people down, why not start a competition.
Sometimes forcing people(myself) out of their shell is the only/best way.
Since most of my friends are in relationships or don't believe in approaching random girls i thought some of the guys on here would appreciate this.
This can also help people get out of their comfort zones.
I will try to make this well balanced so people with strengths in some fields and weaknesses in others can still participate/finish and improve.
This is slightly different from the DJ bible in the sense that we are here to PUSH each other, compete against each other, which will hopefully drive us to break out of this shell completely. Real men enjoy good competition so we should strive to help each other overcome these obstacles and hopefully at the end we will have a true gladiator. We're not trying to crack the shell, we are trying to BREAK IT!
-------------------------------------
The competition will be done in tournament style elimination with task's that need to be completed each week. The unfortunate many who do not complete their tasks will be unable to officially continue on in the tournament.
Task example's (real tasks will be set forth in a later post after I gather census about the publics feel about the competition):
Objective 1:Obtain 1 number and one rejection from number closing. You must ask for the number and either get it or get rejected. The reason why its one success and failure is because people sometimes do one approach and either get setback by rejection and discontinue or become content with success and discontinue. By continuing the approaches to at least 2 or more it will be easier to built a comfortability approaching.
Contestant Rules:
1.) No veterans (though you may comment in the thread you cannot be a participant in the games, you're skill level would not be fairly matched to the newbies. We know who you guys are haha)
2.) Tasks must be completed and posted on time. Estimated 1 week time span for each tash/objective. Start on monday and you must post by sunday 11:59pm or you are eliminated.
3.) Encouragement and tips are highly recommended as to create better/more fierce competition so that we can better ourselves and better each other.
4.) Just because you fair well with the opposite sex doesn't mean you fair well in approaches/AA. If you are one of the guys like me that has women approach you but cannot approach, you're welcome to join in.
5.) Do not lie about your approaches/tasks. We are here to improve, faking improvement does nothing for yourself. Failure is only another step towards success.
---
Extra's:
There may be bonus task's for the eliminated to redeem themselves. These will obviously be more difficult and out of your comfort zone more than the normal task's but if completed you will join back with your brothers on the current coming tasks.
At the very end of the Tournament, if there is only one survivor, he will be crowned champion. If there are multiple survivors, the crowd will choose who they want to be the champion.
ARE YOU IN?
NOTES:
Objective/tasks are still yet to be determined.
Whether or not enough people join will also determine whether this will take off.
Duration of the task's are TBD.
more to come.
I was thinking for a while about how to conquer my AA. Since i am very competitive and also don't like to let people down, why not start a competition.
Sometimes forcing people(myself) out of their shell is the only/best way.
Since most of my friends are in relationships or don't believe in approaching random girls i thought some of the guys on here would appreciate this.
This can also help people get out of their comfort zones.
I will try to make this well balanced so people with strengths in some fields and weaknesses in others can still participate/finish and improve.
This is slightly different from the DJ bible in the sense that we are here to PUSH each other, compete against each other, which will hopefully drive us to break out of this shell completely. Real men enjoy good competition so we should strive to help each other overcome these obstacles and hopefully at the end we will have a true gladiator. We're not trying to crack the shell, we are trying to BREAK IT!
-------------------------------------
The competition will be done in tournament style elimination with task's that need to be completed each week. The unfortunate many who do not complete their tasks will be unable to officially continue on in the tournament.
Task example's (real tasks will be set forth in a later post after I gather census about the publics feel about the competition):
Objective 1:Obtain 1 number and one rejection from number closing. You must ask for the number and either get it or get rejected. The reason why its one success and failure is because people sometimes do one approach and either get setback by rejection and discontinue or become content with success and discontinue. By continuing the approaches to at least 2 or more it will be easier to built a comfortability approaching.
Contestant Rules:
1.) No veterans (though you may comment in the thread you cannot be a participant in the games, you're skill level would not be fairly matched to the newbies. We know who you guys are haha)
2.) Tasks must be completed and posted on time. Estimated 1 week time span for each tash/objective. Start on monday and you must post by sunday 11:59pm or you are eliminated.
3.) Encouragement and tips are highly recommended as to create better/more fierce competition so that we can better ourselves and better each other.
4.) Just because you fair well with the opposite sex doesn't mean you fair well in approaches/AA. If you are one of the guys like me that has women approach you but cannot approach, you're welcome to join in.
5.) Do not lie about your approaches/tasks. We are here to improve, faking improvement does nothing for yourself. Failure is only another step towards success.
---
Extra's:
There may be bonus task's for the eliminated to redeem themselves. These will obviously be more difficult and out of your comfort zone more than the normal task's but if completed you will join back with your brothers on the current coming tasks.
At the very end of the Tournament, if there is only one survivor, he will be crowned champion. If there are multiple survivors, the crowd will choose who they want to be the champion.
ARE YOU IN?
NOTES:
Objective/tasks are still yet to be determined.
Whether or not enough people join will also determine whether this will take off.
Duration of the task's are TBD.
more to come.