"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Giving off that air...

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NewAndImproved

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...that makes UGs-HB5's approach you from time to time.

This coming year I'd like to up my interactions with quality women in my league. While I'm not offended/annoyed when a not so cute girl approaches me, I'd like to get to the point where they don't. I think it'd say a lot about my progress, from an unconfident guy who only relied on looks to a someone with a lot going for him. A chooser, rather than someone who took whatever came their way.

A lot of people on this site seem to subscribe to weightlifting as a way to combat this.

Anything else?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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posture, and when you're at parties you start being an entertaining guy hanging out with the cool people as soon as you walk in rather than standing around letting them walk up to you
 
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You are too nice. The fatties and uglies are usually the ones to despise you first.
 
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