"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Giving off that air...

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...that makes UGs-HB5's approach you from time to time.

This coming year I'd like to up my interactions with quality women in my league. While I'm not offended/annoyed when a not so cute girl approaches me, I'd like to get to the point where they don't. I think it'd say a lot about my progress, from an unconfident guy who only relied on looks to a someone with a lot going for him. A chooser, rather than someone who took whatever came their way.

A lot of people on this site seem to subscribe to weightlifting as a way to combat this.

Anything else?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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posture, and when you're at parties you start being an entertaining guy hanging out with the cool people as soon as you walk in rather than standing around letting them walk up to you
 
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You are too nice. The fatties and uglies are usually the ones to despise you first.
 
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