"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Giving off that air...

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...that makes UGs-HB5's approach you from time to time.

This coming year I'd like to up my interactions with quality women in my league. While I'm not offended/annoyed when a not so cute girl approaches me, I'd like to get to the point where they don't. I think it'd say a lot about my progress, from an unconfident guy who only relied on looks to a someone with a lot going for him. A chooser, rather than someone who took whatever came their way.

A lot of people on this site seem to subscribe to weightlifting as a way to combat this.

Anything else?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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posture, and when you're at parties you start being an entertaining guy hanging out with the cool people as soon as you walk in rather than standing around letting them walk up to you
 
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You are too nice. The fatties and uglies are usually the ones to despise you first.
 
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