bigjohnson
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Never ever ever give anyone your password. Ever. Never.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Giving her the password to your email accounnt?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Been married 10 years and known my spouse for 18. She will never get the password to any of my email accounts.
If you just have to give a password, create a "special" account.
Obviously, she does have access to the bank accounts, but hey, we are talking about email here.
No, don't do it. None of her business, and it keeps the mystery about you.
If you just have to give a password, create a "special" account.
Obviously, she does have access to the bank accounts, but hey, we are talking about email here.
No, don't do it. None of her business, and it keeps the mystery about you.
yhgsvh74d
Don Juan
the fact that she gave you her email password in order to get yours suggests she has serious mental issues. dump her.
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
After she is satisfied looking at your emails, just change the password.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Luke Skywalker
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Smart. Why not give her the pin number for your credit cards and debit card numbers, and give her a few credit/debit cards to show that you really trust her? Would you do that if she did the same to you?
flows101
Don Juan
Create a new email account
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
To be more specific, a DJ should not be afraid to say "No."Bizzaro said:
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
I would've laughed at her request for 2 minutes, and then give her a strict NO. And then keep going about my day like it never happened.
You take this "DJ" stuff to seriously. Just be a man and do you. I suggest you change your password right after you read this.
You take this "DJ" stuff to seriously. Just be a man and do you. I suggest you change your password right after you read this.
bigjohnson
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Or just change the password on your old one and tell her to respect your privacy. :yawn:flows101 said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
is this a real question? jesus, what has the world come too.. just because you are together doesnt mean you dont have LIVES of your own...
its not about being secure or insecure.. if your lives ever become so intertwined that you NEED to know EVERYTHING about eachother, thats a straight road to failure..
explain that to her..
its not about being secure or insecure.. if your lives ever become so intertwined that you NEED to know EVERYTHING about eachother, thats a straight road to failure..
explain that to her..
FUCM
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Don't ever give anyone your password, ever. I hope that's not the same password you use for things like your bank account, PayPal, etc. If someone has your password, they can change that password, and then you can't ever get into the account again, while she can email everyone you know as if it were you.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Just give her a fake password... Move on...
she'll come to you screaming that you gave her a fake password when she wasn't even suppose to use it... just make up some lame excuse that isp probably wasn't working... keep giving her the run around until you've had enough fun playing mind games then tell her, that your email is private and that she didn't pass the test and can't be trusted.
she'll come to you screaming that you gave her a fake password when she wasn't even suppose to use it... just make up some lame excuse that isp probably wasn't working... keep giving her the run around until you've had enough fun playing mind games then tell her, that your email is private and that she didn't pass the test and can't be trusted.