"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Giving her the password to your email accounnt?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Been married 10 years and known my spouse for 18. She will never get the password to any of my email accounts.

If you just have to give a password, create a "special" account.

Obviously, she does have access to the bank accounts, but hey, we are talking about email here. :)

No, don't do it. None of her business, and it keeps the mystery about you.
 

yhgsvh74d

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the fact that she gave you her email password in order to get yours suggests she has serious mental issues. dump her.
 

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LOL at potbelly. You've got all the adivce you needed here.
 

Create Reality

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After she is satisfied looking at your emails, just change the password.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Smart. Why not give her the pin number for your credit cards and debit card numbers, and give her a few credit/debit cards to show that you really trust her? Would you do that if she did the same to you?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Bizzaro said:
As a DJ, we are supposed to show strength and confidence, their **** tests are not supposed to phase us and we lead and take up the roll of alpha male.

In other words, NO FEAR.....
To be more specific, a DJ should not be afraid to say "No."
 

BlackJackal

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I would've laughed at her request for 2 minutes, and then give her a strict NO. And then keep going about my day like it never happened.

You take this "DJ" stuff to seriously. Just be a man and do you. I suggest you change your password right after you read this.
 

bigjohnson

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flows101 said:
Create a new email account
Or just change the password on your old one and tell her to respect your privacy. :yawn:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Gosh, I really feel the love guys.:D



hahahaha

Giving her my password was obviously a NO NO:down:


So i've changed it:up:


Thanks for the advice. Loved the funny posts too.
 

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is this a real question? jesus, what has the world come too.. just because you are together doesnt mean you dont have LIVES of your own...

its not about being secure or insecure.. if your lives ever become so intertwined that you NEED to know EVERYTHING about eachother, thats a straight road to failure..

explain that to her..
 

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Don't ever give anyone your password, ever. I hope that's not the same password you use for things like your bank account, PayPal, etc. If someone has your password, they can change that password, and then you can't ever get into the account again, while she can email everyone you know as if it were you.
 

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Just give her a fake password... Move on...

she'll come to you screaming that you gave her a fake password when she wasn't even suppose to use it... just make up some lame excuse that isp probably wasn't working... keep giving her the run around until you've had enough fun playing mind games then tell her, that your email is private and that she didn't pass the test and can't be trusted.
 
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