RedScorpion
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Hey all,
I broke up with this girl about 3 weeks ago (5 month relationship), and I still have a set of her dvds at my house. I had totally forgotten about them until my mom reminded me about them and to bring them back. The easy part is that I won't have to give them to her directly, I can pass it to my mom (on same course as ex) or her roommate, and then they'll give it to her.
I'm pretty sure this is the right thing to do, not like I want them, and they are hers. I guess my main concern is, "Am I breaking no contact" by doing this? We haven't talked since the break-up, she hasn't asked for them. I can see some good or bad things by doing so. I can see showing 'Still thinking/caring about her' (bad imo), or maybe showing proof of acceptance of the finality of it (good). And then there's 'Who cares, get it done and over with'.
Any opinions, advice, experiences are definitely welcome :cheer:
I broke up with this girl about 3 weeks ago (5 month relationship), and I still have a set of her dvds at my house. I had totally forgotten about them until my mom reminded me about them and to bring them back. The easy part is that I won't have to give them to her directly, I can pass it to my mom (on same course as ex) or her roommate, and then they'll give it to her.
I'm pretty sure this is the right thing to do, not like I want them, and they are hers. I guess my main concern is, "Am I breaking no contact" by doing this? We haven't talked since the break-up, she hasn't asked for them. I can see some good or bad things by doing so. I can see showing 'Still thinking/caring about her' (bad imo), or maybe showing proof of acceptance of the finality of it (good). And then there's 'Who cares, get it done and over with'.
Any opinions, advice, experiences are definitely welcome :cheer: