"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Giving a Beautiful Woman a Compliment

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If I tell a beautiful lady that she has a pretty blouse and I am trying to show sexual attraction is that compliment OK or did it not go far enough?

I can't believe I am asking this question but find myself in a rut.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Powerlifter said:
If I tell a beautiful lady that she has a pretty blouse and I am trying to show sexual attraction is that compliment OK or did it not go far enough?

Tough one............ :confused:

I'm sure the blouse will be flattered by your compliment but the girl might get a little upset. She might think that wanting to show sexual attraction to a blouse is a little weird. :crazy:

Then again, it might work.

Cheers!
 

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I think it's okay to say a girl is pretty if she's a 7 or below. Above that, if you want to give a compliment, say something specific like, "I like your style" or "I like your hair", but not "you are so beautiful" or anything like that. A girl that's beautiful and knows it will respect you less if you tell her that. That's my rule on this. I think if you've been seeing her awhile and you've slept with her, then you can loosen up and give more direct compliments. But until you bang a girl, use compliments sparingly and make her seek your approval.
 

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I guess my point in giving the compliment about her blouse was my way hoping she would find I did like her style but in a round about way.

Guess I should be more direct I guess.

Thanks
 

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It's always better to compliment somebody on something specific that is within their control, and that you actually appreciate, regardless if it's a man, woman, hot chick, whatever.

Saying "I like that blouse" isn't really about her, you could be talking about the blouse designer. But saying it looks good on her would be better, or saying how well it matches her shoes or whatever.

Try this one: "you have really nice posture. You carry yourself with a lot of self confidence."

or "I like that blouse. it brings out your skin color very nicely."

don't worry about her realizing you find her sexually attractive. Sometimes it's better to make her wonder, rather than trying to convince her. The goal is to keep her idea of "you" in her mind as long as possible, and as separate as possible from all the other clowns out there.

As soon as she feels any overt sexual desire from you, she'll stick you in that category in her mind with all the other guys that want to fukk her.

If you see her once every couple of days, a few honest, non sexual hit and run compliments can work wonders. Don't stick around waiting for her to say "thanks" or reciprocate.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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taiyuu_otoko said:
It's always better to compliment somebody on something specific that is within their control, and that you actually appreciate, regardless if it's a man, woman, hot chick, whatever.

Saying "I like that blouse" isn't really about her, you could be talking about the blouse designer. But saying it looks good on her would be better, or saying how well it matches her shoes or whatever.

Try this one: "you have really nice posture. You carry yourself with a lot of self confidence."

or "I like that blouse. it brings out your skin color very nicely."

don't worry about her realizing you find her sexually attractive. Sometimes it's better to make her wonder, rather than trying to convince her. The goal is to keep her idea of "you" in her mind as long as possible, and as separate as possible from all the other clowns out there.

As soon as she feels any overt sexual desire from you, she'll stick you in that category in her mind with all the other guys that want to fukk her.

If you see her once every couple of days, a few honest, non sexual hit and run compliments can work wonders. Don't stick around waiting for her to say "thanks" or reciprocate.
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Dam this was what I was looking for not to take away from any others advice. How excellent advice you have thank you so much.

I just hope I have not been put the friends zone for I want to screw her brains out dam she is so sexy.....
 
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