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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

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Give phone on a woman behind the counter

BrightV

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Hey all,

Well, never done it before, and I need a small advice. (might be funny or not but...)

I like one of the post office women. everytime I visit she is really friendly with me (compared to others at least). And I like her style (at least on our small chats). I would like to pass the phone number.

Options/Suggestions?

My english are not perfect, as i am not native speaker (sorry for that).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maximummax

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Mauser96 said:
Next time you are in, and there is no one else there (so she is not put on the spot) why don't you say :
"I think you are cute. Do you want to get together for a drink one night this week?"
+1
Add " You have nothing to loose. if nothing else we can be just friends"
 

BrightV

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of-course I am looking next time to be quiet and move accordingly. I was also thinking to pass the phone written on a paper (or it is too stupid?).
 

BrightV

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Unfortunately on my visit today, the manager was there.
So I couldn't be somehow private.... Next package to pick up will be in about 2 weeks. And in this point your advice is needed.


(this is not a postoffice, it is a package pick-up point on an construction tools/equipment store) And the info point has: Tools rentals etc... plus the package pickup (courier service).

Should i visit only for that? or is it too stupid?
I usually go to that shop, for cables, bulbs, garden ground etc.

Thnx.
V.
 

sodbuster

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That's one of the problems with employee's in a business you frequent.... are they being nice because it's their job? or they want you? As far as your visit's to the store, do whatever.... Just don't end up with a 10 year supply of dirt because you don't have the balls to ask her out..... Worst she can say is no and that's where you are at right now.
 

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