"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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BrightV

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Hey all,

Well, never done it before, and I need a small advice. (might be funny or not but...)

I like one of the post office women. everytime I visit she is really friendly with me (compared to others at least). And I like her style (at least on our small chats). I would like to pass the phone number.

Options/Suggestions?

My english are not perfect, as i am not native speaker (sorry for that).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maximummax

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Mauser96 said:
Next time you are in, and there is no one else there (so she is not put on the spot) why don't you say :
"I think you are cute. Do you want to get together for a drink one night this week?"
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Add " You have nothing to loose. if nothing else we can be just friends"
 

BrightV

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of-course I am looking next time to be quiet and move accordingly. I was also thinking to pass the phone written on a paper (or it is too stupid?).
 

BrightV

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Unfortunately on my visit today, the manager was there.
So I couldn't be somehow private.... Next package to pick up will be in about 2 weeks. And in this point your advice is needed.


(this is not a postoffice, it is a package pick-up point on an construction tools/equipment store) And the info point has: Tools rentals etc... plus the package pickup (courier service).

Should i visit only for that? or is it too stupid?
I usually go to that shop, for cables, bulbs, garden ground etc.

Thnx.
V.
 

sodbuster

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That's one of the problems with employee's in a business you frequent.... are they being nice because it's their job? or they want you? As far as your visit's to the store, do whatever.... Just don't end up with a 10 year supply of dirt because you don't have the balls to ask her out..... Worst she can say is no and that's where you are at right now.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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