Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Long story short late Friday night she started up some ****. I help my ground and basically said there's the door and she took it. She contacted me today and I kept my responses short. Three times she asked what's wrong and then convinced herself I was mad even though I said every time I wasn't. When I didn't agree to go with her tonight to her friends party she then text me a pic of this tight ass short as **** dress asking me if its 'too short' and which I said no its perfect. Me not reacting as she wishes continued to assure me guys that adore her would be there and be giving her attention, but if I were there shed be all over me. Again, I stated I didn't want to go. A few more guilt trips then she fired this at me

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Long story short late Friday night she started up some ****. I help my ground and basically said there's the door and she took it. She contacted me today and I kept my responses short. Three times she asked what's wrong and then convinced herself I was mad even though I said every time I wasn't. When I didn't agree to go with her tonight to her friends party she then text me a pic of this tight ass short as **** dress asking me if its 'too short' and which I said no its perfect. Me not reacting as she wishes continued to assure me guys that adore her would be there and be giving her attention, but if I were there shed be all over me. Again, I stated I didn't want to go. A few more guilt trips then she fired this at me

http://img824.imageshack.us/img824/7379/terri.png

http://img685.imageshack.us/img685/5305/terri2.png
some will say she was sh!t testing you and while Im sure thats at least partly true she is obviously a bit of an attention wh0re and someone who will openly try to mae you jealous. you are 31 how old is she? if she is around the same age, she really should be too old for this kind of cr@p.
personally I couldnt put up with that sh1t, got no time for it, seems to me it will only get worse. I think you have done the right thing in standing your own ground.
posted that before I saw the texts. I stand by what I wrote
 

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She's 30 and I agree with that statement. I'm pretty good with not showing how much it does actually irritate and piss me off. She was definitely trying through out the entire day but I just kept my responses short and unemotional. The last two texts crack me up. It's about 40 min after the 'I think we should be friends' crap. It wasn't an accident. I haven't responded since any of those and she's posted **** in FB that she's now staying the night at a hotel there. Haha keep digging!

I've know her for a few months now and it started out friendly. I actually didnt want to jump in her pants right off for other reasons. It turned into something fun but I realize now her little games are starting to affect me too much. Time to bail!

I just saw your edit and thanks for the response.

You're 48; do the games stop?! I swear its harder now than when I was 21. Christ!!
 
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