"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Long story short late Friday night she started up some ****. I help my ground and basically said there's the door and she took it. She contacted me today and I kept my responses short. Three times she asked what's wrong and then convinced herself I was mad even though I said every time I wasn't. When I didn't agree to go with her tonight to her friends party she then text me a pic of this tight ass short as **** dress asking me if its 'too short' and which I said no its perfect. Me not reacting as she wishes continued to assure me guys that adore her would be there and be giving her attention, but if I were there shed be all over me. Again, I stated I didn't want to go. A few more guilt trips then she fired this at me

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Long story short late Friday night she started up some ****. I help my ground and basically said there's the door and she took it. She contacted me today and I kept my responses short. Three times she asked what's wrong and then convinced herself I was mad even though I said every time I wasn't. When I didn't agree to go with her tonight to her friends party she then text me a pic of this tight ass short as **** dress asking me if its 'too short' and which I said no its perfect. Me not reacting as she wishes continued to assure me guys that adore her would be there and be giving her attention, but if I were there shed be all over me. Again, I stated I didn't want to go. A few more guilt trips then she fired this at me

http://img824.imageshack.us/img824/7379/terri.png

http://img685.imageshack.us/img685/5305/terri2.png
some will say she was sh!t testing you and while Im sure thats at least partly true she is obviously a bit of an attention wh0re and someone who will openly try to mae you jealous. you are 31 how old is she? if she is around the same age, she really should be too old for this kind of cr@p.
personally I couldnt put up with that sh1t, got no time for it, seems to me it will only get worse. I think you have done the right thing in standing your own ground.
posted that before I saw the texts. I stand by what I wrote
 

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She's 30 and I agree with that statement. I'm pretty good with not showing how much it does actually irritate and piss me off. She was definitely trying through out the entire day but I just kept my responses short and unemotional. The last two texts crack me up. It's about 40 min after the 'I think we should be friends' crap. It wasn't an accident. I haven't responded since any of those and she's posted **** in FB that she's now staying the night at a hotel there. Haha keep digging!

I've know her for a few months now and it started out friendly. I actually didnt want to jump in her pants right off for other reasons. It turned into something fun but I realize now her little games are starting to affect me too much. Time to bail!

I just saw your edit and thanks for the response.

You're 48; do the games stop?! I swear its harder now than when I was 21. Christ!!
 
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